On the basis that the BM has flipped out? In recent months, bm has taken visitation time away from dh, she has started timing phone calls, she is insulting...sent several letters that contain some form of threat or accusation....not physical, but "you better stop complaining or...", or saying she will badger ss about every minute he is in our home, etc.
She blatanly stated that she is not going along with the court order as things may need to be altered. To fit her of course. They share joint legal with no specifications set forth...and she refuses to tell dh of any appts, or school meetings. The school is having its own problems notifying dh and we have let them know strongly that its against the law.
Every letter she sends is rude and always invariably demands money.
She will not let dh know about any meetings or appts. He has asked in writing. She only got worse, she doesnt even tell him afterwards now. Did not send a copy of his recent interim grades, etc.
SS is suspended from school. CO says visitation is not limited to specifics and ss can come when not in school...she refuses to let him come. WE live 2 hours away and dh was seeing ss today, but she would not let him bring him home - her mother had plans with him. They live with her mother!! She has him 5 days a week. When dh tried to discuss it, she told him that ss is not coming because she said so and hung up! This is typical behavior for her.
DH picked ss up today for a deposition hearing concerning ss' burn injurires. This is a suit dh pursued as bm decided to become best friends with the families involved - after the burns and after she knew dh was looking into a lawsuit. This was last year.
Now, she was told in word and writing that he would pursue a lawsuit. She was notified in writing about the deposition and responded, no protests. Today, she follows them to the lawyer's office and goes off.
She cursed dh in front of the laywer....demanded that if he went in than she was going in. She is not a party to the suit and had not been summonsed. The lawyer actually threatened to call police, but she threatened to take ss and leave. SS chose to speak with lawyer, so she could not block that. However, dh asked lawyer to speak with ss alone and then with him.
BM had her lawyer there to represent someone else summonsed for the other side!!
DH did say they are in the meeting now...I called...oops, and she is not there.
But, what is going on? WE have not gotten a signed court order from our defeat in January......we can appeal to circuit court once we have this.
It appears, bm is flipping out though. She is becoming extremely irrational. And volatile.
She blatanly stated that she is not going along with the court order as things may need to be altered. To fit her of course. They share joint legal with no specifications set forth...and she refuses to tell dh of any appts, or school meetings. The school is having its own problems notifying dh and we have let them know strongly that its against the law.
Every letter she sends is rude and always invariably demands money.
She will not let dh know about any meetings or appts. He has asked in writing. She only got worse, she doesnt even tell him afterwards now. Did not send a copy of his recent interim grades, etc.
SS is suspended from school. CO says visitation is not limited to specifics and ss can come when not in school...she refuses to let him come. WE live 2 hours away and dh was seeing ss today, but she would not let him bring him home - her mother had plans with him. They live with her mother!! She has him 5 days a week. When dh tried to discuss it, she told him that ss is not coming because she said so and hung up! This is typical behavior for her.
DH picked ss up today for a deposition hearing concerning ss' burn injurires. This is a suit dh pursued as bm decided to become best friends with the families involved - after the burns and after she knew dh was looking into a lawsuit. This was last year.
Now, she was told in word and writing that he would pursue a lawsuit. She was notified in writing about the deposition and responded, no protests. Today, she follows them to the lawyer's office and goes off.
She cursed dh in front of the laywer....demanded that if he went in than she was going in. She is not a party to the suit and had not been summonsed. The lawyer actually threatened to call police, but she threatened to take ss and leave. SS chose to speak with lawyer, so she could not block that. However, dh asked lawyer to speak with ss alone and then with him.
BM had her lawyer there to represent someone else summonsed for the other side!!
DH did say they are in the meeting now...I called...oops, and she is not there.
But, what is going on? WE have not gotten a signed court order from our defeat in January......we can appeal to circuit court once we have this.
It appears, bm is flipping out though. She is becoming extremely irrational. And volatile.