Unfortunately we were not able to go to court this past Tuesday and it was on our part. As you know, my husband has serious health issues. Well....last week he started becoming very dizzy and falling around - he had mini strokes. They feel he had a clot to break free but cannot determine where the clot came from. He had taken a nasty fall out of our attic after Christmas and I wonder if the clot came from that fall and it just finally moved. The hospital would not release him until after one last MRI to make sure he had no clots behind his heart - so he got out Tuesday! He is doing well and walking, talking fine.
The mother has been laying low for the most part and had not been causing drama until this. She seems to have all the confidence in the world. She has not been hospitalized in six months! This from someone who went in at least every 3 months before. 18 ER visits in one year that we know of, etc...but we don't have any information since she moved out from my son's home.
They are being very nasty with phone calls this week. The mother is often at her family's house and says she has NO reception there...the other day after I had tried to contact child, the mother called and was fussing saying her grandfather is ill and she would appreciate it if we respect their time with him ...all I did was call and leave a message. Then last night she answers and is burping in the phone as we talk with our granddaughter...The maternal grandmother is a big instigator but always in the background.
They seem to think we do not have a chance. Our attorney really relies on the months neither of them cared for the child. In fact, I went back and did the math - and for 5 1/2 months (even before she moved in with son included) the mother only spent 18% of the 167 days with child.....the maternal grandmother only 26%. Essentially, they both took a break and it would have continued but my son said something in front of the mother about us looking into primary custody...that is when she bolted and yes, I do regret it as we would still have child completely now.
The mother has been laying low for the most part and had not been causing drama until this. She seems to have all the confidence in the world. She has not been hospitalized in six months! This from someone who went in at least every 3 months before. 18 ER visits in one year that we know of, etc...but we don't have any information since she moved out from my son's home.
They are being very nasty with phone calls this week. The mother is often at her family's house and says she has NO reception there...the other day after I had tried to contact child, the mother called and was fussing saying her grandfather is ill and she would appreciate it if we respect their time with him ...all I did was call and leave a message. Then last night she answers and is burping in the phone as we talk with our granddaughter...The maternal grandmother is a big instigator but always in the background.
They seem to think we do not have a chance. Our attorney really relies on the months neither of them cared for the child. In fact, I went back and did the math - and for 5 1/2 months (even before she moved in with son included) the mother only spent 18% of the 167 days with child.....the maternal grandmother only 26%. Essentially, they both took a break and it would have continued but my son said something in front of the mother about us looking into primary custody...that is when she bolted and yes, I do regret it as we would still have child completely now.