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§ 22.1-279.5 Participation in certain school activities by noncustodial parent

Unless a court order has been issued to the contrary, the noncustodial parent of a student enrolled in a public school or day care center shall not be denied the opportunity to participate in any of the student's school or day care activities in which such participation is supported or encouraged by the policies of the school or day care center solely on the basis of such noncustodial status. For the purposes of this section, "school or day care activities" shall include, but shall not be limited to, lunch breaks, special in-school programs, parent-teacher conferences and meetings, and extracurricular activities. It is the responsibility of the custodial parent to provide the court order to the school or day care center.

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I live in VA and I know first hand unless the order specifically states you are not allowed to have lunch you may do so at any time...

Unless the order specifically states that you cannot go on field trips you may do that too...

If you want school info you go get some self addressed stamped envelopes and take them to the school secratary and ask her very politely to mail monthly calanders and report cards etc.. and if you do so nicely she will....

now as for parent teacher confrences , you must call and find out the specific dates they do them and you can sit in on his and he cannot stop you HOWEVER you can not schedule one without his presence.


You can file a MTA/ visitation

stating that you would like him to be ordered to give you that information but it is easier and less of a headache to just do what I stated....what county are you in?

 We feel the judge in our case is very biased towards mothers we have 2 court orders showing she has gone against the GAL's in the case ( 3 different ones by her request all saying the same things) and the children's counselor.

There are several fathers in our area who report the same with this judge.

1. can we get another judge assigned ?

2. How do we go about doing it if it is even possible?

I am in VA..what county you can PM me if you want

well if she reads for school without too much issues I would let it rest because if you push and push she will not want to do it especially now entering the teen years..

however some cute books that my teens love ..have been

"how to go to visitation without throwing up"

" a bridge to tarabithia "

seventeen magazine

cosmo girl

It is possible that a correction was made you have to realize report cards are computer generated and teachers put in there comments so it is very possible

you simply say " parents love their children ALWAYS, whether they are here or not"

social services has a list of all child care centers and all certified child care providers ...so if you have a name at all thats who I would go with

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