it is my opinion that she is looking to make you do some driving as well from what I am reading....whether she is paying support or not you can be made to drive 1/2 way...or pay expenses ...or drive one way (ie parent starting parenting time pick up at other parents location)
As far as the Community service..yes she should be made to help given the situation...but isnt that one of the reasons DH got custody ( her letting him run around and get into trouble) is it worth the fight...
as for the 4 weekends in a row...I am not understanding something she lost one weekend ...lets just say she misunderstood...after all she does live in her own world..and I have one just like this to deal with...but wouldnt that be 3 weekends in a row? anyway if you have plans this weekend...why not have DH send something like this ...
Dear....
I have recieved your request for 4 weekends in a row, while I understand you lost a weekend due to a misunderstanding of my request for a few hours, I made plans for the weekend of **-** , however I would be willing to accomidate your request on the weekends of **-** (list all weekends)
if this is unworkable due to your schedule please send me a list of at least 6 weekends that work for you and I will check them with my schedule, and give you the 4 weekends you request based on what can work for both schedules"
sincerely
***
its at a point where like it or not you have to pick the battles that are worth fighting...and you have to find a way to not let it eat you up inside...it took me a long time to get to that point...
As far as the Community service..yes she should be made to help given the situation...but isnt that one of the reasons DH got custody ( her letting him run around and get into trouble) is it worth the fight...
as for the 4 weekends in a row...I am not understanding something she lost one weekend ...lets just say she misunderstood...after all she does live in her own world..and I have one just like this to deal with...but wouldnt that be 3 weekends in a row? anyway if you have plans this weekend...why not have DH send something like this ...
Dear....
I have recieved your request for 4 weekends in a row, while I understand you lost a weekend due to a misunderstanding of my request for a few hours, I made plans for the weekend of **-** , however I would be willing to accomidate your request on the weekends of **-** (list all weekends)
if this is unworkable due to your schedule please send me a list of at least 6 weekends that work for you and I will check them with my schedule, and give you the 4 weekends you request based on what can work for both schedules"
sincerely
***
its at a point where like it or not you have to pick the battles that are worth fighting...and you have to find a way to not let it eat you up inside...it took me a long time to get to that point...