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#61
Second Families / RE: Also,
Sep 06, 2006, 04:01:02 AM
it is my opinion that she is looking to make you do some driving as well from what I am reading....whether she is paying support or not you can be made to drive 1/2 way...or pay expenses ...or drive one way (ie parent starting parenting time pick up at other parents location)

As far as the Community service..yes she should be made to help given the situation...but isnt that one of the reasons DH got custody ( her letting him run around and get into trouble) is it worth the fight...

as for the 4 weekends in a row...I am not understanding something she lost one weekend ...lets just say she misunderstood...after all she does live in her own world..and I have one just like this to deal with...but wouldnt that be 3 weekends in a row? anyway if you have plans this weekend...why not have DH send something like this ...

Dear....
I have recieved your request for 4 weekends in a row, while I understand you lost a weekend due to a misunderstanding of my request for a few hours, I made plans for the weekend of **-** , however I would be willing to accomidate your request on the weekends of **-** (list all weekends)
if this is unworkable due to your schedule please send me a list of at least 6 weekends that work for you and I will check them with my schedule, and give you the 4 weekends you request based on what can work for both schedules"
sincerely
***


its at a point where like it or not you have to pick the battles that are worth fighting...and you have to find a way to not let it eat you up inside...it took me a long time to get to that point...

#62
Second Families / oh and
Jul 20, 2006, 04:06:03 AM
Its free ...
#63
Second Families / RE: Funny how....
Jul 20, 2006, 04:05:27 AM
hey dipper ...are ya'll communicating by phone? you know its always word against word that wayand we had so many problems with that I found something that helped a lot..

//www.coparentcalendar.com

make sure anything you add you make a copy of and keep it in a file that way you have proof of everything...you invite mom by her email...and she chooses her user name and password...
#64
Second Families / RE: Counseling
May 25, 2006, 07:35:01 PM
I cant offer much help but We are going through the same situation...sending thoughts your way
#65
Second Families / RE: MySpace snoop
May 25, 2006, 07:33:09 PM
go to a truckstop close by ..ask a driver to mail it for you from another state...give him $5 for his trouble...
#66
4 I have known you quite a while on the boards and no I dont think you would but I do think you are smart enough and have reason to be mad enough you would want to ...just dont think you would ...does that make sense?
#67
honestly buy 2 copies of the book "stepwives" and give her a copy and you read a copy ....especially the chapter on men on the outside men on the inside...
#68
Second Families / RE: Child placement...
Jul 06, 2005, 03:28:40 PM

  * be livescanned (fingerprinted) and child abuse index cleared by the Department of Social Services. This is done at the expense of the agency and takes approximately 7 days for clearance. Anyone living in the home who is 18 years of age or older must also be fingerprinted and cleared.

*  be CPR and First Aid certified. Water safety certification is required for those who have a pool and/or spa.

* have adequate space in their home or apartment. Only 2 children can be in one room. A child 5 years of age or older can only share a room with another child of the same sex.


* If you have cats or dogs in the home, a copy of their rabies vaccinations is required.


house should be child proofed.... medications up and not easy to get to ...railings on stairways...fire extinguisher and fire alarms ...first aid kit with a flash light...all cleaning supplies and alike poinsons locked up
#69
Second Families / RE: she's out of the hospital
Jan 15, 2005, 04:03:30 AM
bleeding from bottom and diahreah may be salmonilla..

unforunately my YSS got this but the DRs say this starts 4 days after the food that caused it is eaten so do the math and then find out where she was what she ate ..in our case mom fed him and egg sandwich thursday and monday is when major simptoms started
#70
Nope this is a fight almost every blended family has, I go through it on a daily basis my DH is the CP of 2 and I am the CP of my 3 from a previous marriage as well.