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#11
Custody Issues / Re: Need Advise
Oct 05, 2009, 10:52:23 AM
I hate to suggest this because I don't like options that throw fuel on the fire, but you might want to talk to your attorney about getting a no contact order against mom.
#12
Father's Issues / Re: Talk about role reversal!
Oct 01, 2009, 08:37:52 AM
I don't think it's necessarily a gender thing- or at least it doesn't have to be. Basically, in this day and age everyone works, if you are at all capable of supporting yourself, why should another adult be forced to support you?
#13
Father's Issues / Re: Need advice PLEASE
Sep 22, 2009, 09:46:13 AM
Are there any orders at all? Are you ordered to pay support? How long ago did she move? Has she filed for divorce?
#14
You need to ask your attorney to file and get at least temp orders set up, as it stands now Mom is running the show and you are letting her.
#15
Has mom informed you that she plans to move? Generally, moves- especially ones that change schools districts- are seen as enough of a change of circumstance to have a modification request heard. Do you live in the child's current school district?
#16
Can you not ask the coach for a schedule at the game? I'm not saying what Mom is doing is right, but anywhere you can get the info yourself and remove her ability to jerk you around, you should.

Definitely keep documenting .
#17
Father's Issues / Re: Small Town in Wisconsin
Sep 16, 2009, 07:33:16 AM
I couldn't find the question.
#18
Dear Socrateaser / Re: affidavit
Sep 15, 2009, 08:44:47 AM
They will usually not just automatically get in trouble. IF they get in any trouble it is usually because the other party sues them for defamation or something along those lines.
#19
I would be asking that attorney about his performance. He is ethically obligated to acting in your best interests...it doesn't sound like he did.
#20
I'm not sure the family situation you were in would tilt things against you, both moms were willing participants in that family for quite some time.  I don't think you should let fear of bias rob your children of having you in their lives as their father.