Each visitation we send a suitcase with everything baby will need: clothes, toothbrush, toopaste, first aid kit, thermometer, tylenol, a few toys, a few books, and snacks, diapers. We have sent cartons of soy milk, but dad says he doesn't need it. We've sent juice, but again he says he doesn't need it. Do we keep sending it anyway?
We are too aware that the courts like to look at mommas who try their hardest to insure a healthy well-balanced child as 'overly protective'. We have not asked the lawyer to make any statements about our concerns over the baby not being fed correctly or given enough sleep. These are just our concerns.
But, dad says we don't have any right to call and check up on baby even if she has been sick and we are worried. Baby has had a history of ear infections that we have just recently overcome (knock on wood).
We try to be civil and accomodating towards dad, since my son is in a similar situation we know full well that when the parents cooperate the child is much better off. My son and his ex have a great working relationship and cooperate on everything. I know this can work, but both parties need to work at it.
Also, dad pulls a lot of overtime and we have no idea who keeps baby when he is at work. Hopefully it's someone caring like his mom, but don't we have a right to know who is tending her?
Dad has changed lawyers for the third time now. Each time he doesn't get what he wants he switches lawyers.
I'm just very frustrated. I guess since I know that this can work for the best interest of the child I don't understand why he seems to go out of his way to do the opposite of what we request.
We are too aware that the courts like to look at mommas who try their hardest to insure a healthy well-balanced child as 'overly protective'. We have not asked the lawyer to make any statements about our concerns over the baby not being fed correctly or given enough sleep. These are just our concerns.
But, dad says we don't have any right to call and check up on baby even if she has been sick and we are worried. Baby has had a history of ear infections that we have just recently overcome (knock on wood).
We try to be civil and accomodating towards dad, since my son is in a similar situation we know full well that when the parents cooperate the child is much better off. My son and his ex have a great working relationship and cooperate on everything. I know this can work, but both parties need to work at it.
Also, dad pulls a lot of overtime and we have no idea who keeps baby when he is at work. Hopefully it's someone caring like his mom, but don't we have a right to know who is tending her?
Dad has changed lawyers for the third time now. Each time he doesn't get what he wants he switches lawyers.
I'm just very frustrated. I guess since I know that this can work for the best interest of the child I don't understand why he seems to go out of his way to do the opposite of what we request.