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Custody Issues / RE: How can I get them back???
« on: Dec 01, 2003, 07:21:45 AM »
My advice about childcare is, don't take the kids when you are working. Dad wanted all the responsibility, so let him take it. If HE has to put the put the kids in daycare, then I don't think you will be responsible to pay for it. They usually determine the amount each parent has to pay by their income, and if your income is that low, he should be responsible for all of it. There are a lot of men who only want their kids so they don't have to pay child support. The fact that he grounded your son for saying he wants his mom proves that he is one of them. He doesn't seem to care about their feelings at all. The best thing you can do is get on the phone, call your county legal aid office. There are women's organizations that will help you with your case. Document everything. Don't give up. Give your kids as much love as you can when you can be with them, but don't lose your job. If you want to get your kids back, you will have to be able to take of yourself first. Keep in mind that the visitation schedule created by the court is not ordering you to take the  kids, it is ordering him to let you take the kids if you choose to. If you have to work, you have to work. If you are late picking them up, he can't cancel your visitation on that day, unless the order says he can.

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