Simplydad:
Of course it wasnt stated in those exact words, but that was basically what it said
BM is trying to show she can provide for kids. There is no support order. We take care of our time, she hers. However, she insists of buying school clothes each year (ok not entirely true, BM's mother buys school clothes). The first few years, we bought stuff, but the stuff she bought was always better (and therefore preferred by kids). We gave up after the first two years, why waste the money.
Anyway, this is one of her points, that she helps provide for the kids. So 14yo letter stated Mom buys school clothes, mom buys bathing suit, mom takes us places.
As for your statement of her being a fool: She has already submitted this stuff, we just havent been served.
Now for a small rant: during the yearly argument about not giving her check-out right at school, she informed us last night that it is perfectly ok to check kids out of school 1/2 hour early because they arent doing anything anyway - exact reason we want to keep school time. :end rant
Of course it wasnt stated in those exact words, but that was basically what it said
BM is trying to show she can provide for kids. There is no support order. We take care of our time, she hers. However, she insists of buying school clothes each year (ok not entirely true, BM's mother buys school clothes). The first few years, we bought stuff, but the stuff she bought was always better (and therefore preferred by kids). We gave up after the first two years, why waste the money.
Anyway, this is one of her points, that she helps provide for the kids. So 14yo letter stated Mom buys school clothes, mom buys bathing suit, mom takes us places.
As for your statement of her being a fool: She has already submitted this stuff, we just havent been served.
Now for a small rant: during the yearly argument about not giving her check-out right at school, she informed us last night that it is perfectly ok to check kids out of school 1/2 hour early because they arent doing anything anyway - exact reason we want to keep school time. :end rant