I'm in PA, too. It is my understanding that custody and child support are 2 separate entities in our state. As fas as I know, she can refile at anytime to start her support payments again. Since you said all of this was never agreed to in writing I don't see how you can stop her going back to DR. At this point it would go off the original order so I would try to get the original order modified ASAP to show he has had 50/50 over the past year.
As far as her violating the original order's ROFR, you can hold her in comtempt as well as the address change. At that time, since your fiance has had the children half the time, tell the judge this has been the arrangement for the past 12 months and modify the original order. I think you'll have to file the contempt and modification seperately but it should be reviewed at one time when your conference is scheduled. Having 12 months of this schedule already established should work in your favor to have the order modified accordingly.
I also think her CPS issues over lice will not work in her benefit. Like they said, lice is not life threatening and the children and their surrounding are fine.
I know as hard as it is to want to reduce the support payments, if it's determined there is one, but in my personal opinion it would be in the best interest of that child who's paternity is unknown to not make the child go thru that. If she thinks your fiance is the father I would leave it be especially since he is so involved in the child's life.
As far as her violating the original order's ROFR, you can hold her in comtempt as well as the address change. At that time, since your fiance has had the children half the time, tell the judge this has been the arrangement for the past 12 months and modify the original order. I think you'll have to file the contempt and modification seperately but it should be reviewed at one time when your conference is scheduled. Having 12 months of this schedule already established should work in your favor to have the order modified accordingly.
I also think her CPS issues over lice will not work in her benefit. Like they said, lice is not life threatening and the children and their surrounding are fine.
I know as hard as it is to want to reduce the support payments, if it's determined there is one, but in my personal opinion it would be in the best interest of that child who's paternity is unknown to not make the child go thru that. If she thinks your fiance is the father I would leave it be especially since he is so involved in the child's life.