PS: The judge didn't read/accept the motion or affidavit I filed due to the court's misfiling of the motion. The affidavit listed the incidents whereby my child was molested by his mother and also subjected over the years to domestic violence between the BM and her many husbands - she has been married numerous times. Had the judge read the affidavit, I do not think this miserable excuse of a judgment would have been reached. Or at least, I like to think that it wouldn't have. I know others are dissatisfied with the family court system. I have reached the stage where I am ashamed of the American system and in despair over it. The key to keeping your child is beat them badly, tell them to lie, marry or cohabit with lots of people who also beat the child and the spouse, and you will keep your child for good and never be punished or held accountable. Parent the child well, teach the child values, i.e. not to lie, to be a good person, and be kind to the child....and you will be punished in various ways by the court and never have custody.