Would really appreciate some opinions on this. The BM is now denying my parental time with my daughter by claiming she is vomiting and has stomach pains. This is a variation of the occasion about a month ago when she took a bag of vomit to a police offer stating my child was sick because she did not want to see me. They have now got my daughter trained (brainwashed) into lying to drs, counselors and police at the tender age of 9. Their MO is clear. They tell the counselor via my daughter that I am mean and hit her. They tell police officers the same and say she is sick. They now take her to MDs with the same story. They create "evidence", that would normally be seen as indisputable. I am wondering if there is any way out of this. They are intent on removing me by any means by telling whatever lies they want to the appropriate people. My daughter is too terrified not to lie because she thinks her mom will get in trouble and go to jail if she doesn't do as she is told. She loves the mom who is selling her down the river and will do anything to "protect" her. My daughter is contantly worried that something will happen to her mom while she is away from her.
The BM obviously thinks if she convinces the judge with her "evidence" that my daughter is ill at the thought of seeing me, the judge will stop her seeing me. She will have compelling evidence even though it is all lies.
There are 3 scenarios re sickness. Either my daughter isn't sick and its a lie. Or they have given her something to eat which made her sick (not unheard of as they've given her laxatives just before visits to me so she spent the entire weekend in the bathroom). Or my daughter is sick. Whatever the scenario I cannot prove it one way or another. In court, going on the basis that my daughter is sick, I can point out that with the degree of alienation going on before visits and during transportation, it is little wonder if she gets sick with nerves. Her stepfather yelled hateful remarks about me during the journey when he brought her recently and my daughter was really upset when she arrived. The grandma does the same. The BM tells her "I hate him and am only taking you there because if I don't, he will make sure I go to jail". I have tape recordings of my daughter telling me this but I doubt it will be accepted as evidence. The BM has the "evidence" and I have none, basically, to show what they are doing.
Much as I know I need an attorney due to the serious nature of the problems and much as I want to get one, I am unable to and have to represent myself pro se.
The BM obviously thinks if she convinces the judge with her "evidence" that my daughter is ill at the thought of seeing me, the judge will stop her seeing me. She will have compelling evidence even though it is all lies.
There are 3 scenarios re sickness. Either my daughter isn't sick and its a lie. Or they have given her something to eat which made her sick (not unheard of as they've given her laxatives just before visits to me so she spent the entire weekend in the bathroom). Or my daughter is sick. Whatever the scenario I cannot prove it one way or another. In court, going on the basis that my daughter is sick, I can point out that with the degree of alienation going on before visits and during transportation, it is little wonder if she gets sick with nerves. Her stepfather yelled hateful remarks about me during the journey when he brought her recently and my daughter was really upset when she arrived. The grandma does the same. The BM tells her "I hate him and am only taking you there because if I don't, he will make sure I go to jail". I have tape recordings of my daughter telling me this but I doubt it will be accepted as evidence. The BM has the "evidence" and I have none, basically, to show what they are doing.
Much as I know I need an attorney due to the serious nature of the problems and much as I want to get one, I am unable to and have to represent myself pro se.