Quote from: AnnetteN on Jul 14, 2011, 08:21:25 AM
Yes I was working at the time of divorce and my income was included. I only went by what ever the formula said and didn't ask for any more. I am fine with the child care being gone and not arguing with that. The child care was figured at two days a week at the time of the divorce. I was paying well over that for years and never asked for additional help in any way. We do both have lawyers at this point and I also have no problem with income being imputed and considering that there would also be some childcare involved. His income has also increased quite a bit and I know he is not paying a lot for his other child. I did not mean that we are in a great place financially but the jobs I have found are not near what I had been making when I got laid off and it was worth it to us to be a little tight for a while and cut some expenses to be able to have more time at home with my son especially over the summer and be involved with his school which I feel very thankful for.
I understand.....needed the information because it would help in my coming up with an opinion. (Not that I would be right but it does help)
From the outside looking in your Ex is making a mistake and he should have just left well enough alone. Since you were working at the time of the divorce and therefore your income has been included in the calculation of child support I am trying to understand the basis for his argument. I could see if you were the one asking for an increase for child support and his stance was based on a counter argument.