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I am not the primary parent for my children. I chose to give them up to their father, and I think that was the worst mistake I ever made. He doesn't include me in anything and I hear about important events from the kids after they happen. I have two boys, so I figured he would teach them to be men better than I could. Boy, was I wrong? Ever wish you could go back and make decisions again. My ex husband had an affair on me and kicked me out of the house and moved his new girlfriend in. I was homeless for a while, which is why I left the kids with him.

When it comes to the kids, aren't I entitled to know everything related to them. My son has ear surgery coming up on the 17th, a specialist appointment on the 13th and a hearing test scheduled for the 9th. I didn't find out about it until the lady at the doctors office called to me. She was calling to confirm my information because my ex listed me as the main payee of the medical bills. My kids are covered by medicaid because I am currently unemployed. Shouldn't he be the main payee becasue he has the kids the majority of the time. Also,  shouldn't I have the right to know about upcoming surgeries for my kids? Also, he scheduled the appointments during my two weeks. Shouldn't I be the one scheduling the appointments that will occur during my time with the kids? What information is he supposed to share with me?

I'm not looking for support. I know I shouldn't have smacked him in the arm, but I get so tired of the BS that he pulls all the time.

I smacked my ex in the shoulder because he wouldn't let me see the boys grades. His wife called the cops on me, so now I am facing assault charges.  Just for a little smack on the arm.