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definetly seek legal counsel.

dominican republic needs a passport correct?? which you would need to sign.

Retardation?? Ya hear say....I think a legal guardian is in order....possibly ask for change in custody based on her frustrating visitations...but you said New York...probably wont go far.

out of question....lets say this ex maried this guy....how does that effect it??

MOst states like to keep their jurisdiction. Im confused though.....so Folrida did or didn't relenquish jrisdicition??

file a motion to overturn, include your minutes as evidnece.

In Nevada, which adapts mostly from Cali law, they go by majority of the day (12 hours)

are you saving these texts and messages?? do you have Iphones??

Court today was uneventful.  The judge explained how it worked, and asked her if she wanted to spend more of her son's money. She withdrew her complaint against me.  I know she will have control over a $100,000. trust fund for the child.  He will have access at 18.  Hope the court moniters his money.
She does not have an attorney at this time.  I think, including the divorce, she has had and dismissed 5 attorneys.  I am expecting her to plead indigent and ask for an attorney.
Interesting note, I looked on the clerk of courts website today, her current husband 's name popped up.  He goes to court for contempt with one of this exwives 11/5. ( they are 37 and 4th marriage for each of them)  This looked like his 7th or 8th contempt which had included some previous jail time.  I think his is due more to not paying support.  This, along with the fact they were just evicted from a rental (3rd move in 9 months) scares me with the money that is for my grandson.  They also receive $989. per month for him from social security.  I do not believe much of that is going for him.  Last winter he did not have a winter coat, until I bought one for him. he is not seeing the specialist his pediatrition referred him to last April

did the dad leave the money to you in his will??

There was no custody agreement and there is now only a temp CO which completely messes with the kids heads. BM lives in the same school district NOW but has every intention to "get full custody of the kids and move with them".  I have stopped ALL contact with BM and per her request stopped doing things that "bother her" ex. taking the kids to the dr. when she sends them for my fiances week with ear infections and bronchitis, posting pics to FB, etc. (note that this was not a concern until we got engaged and I have always been this involved with them because I am going to school and am able to be there for them during the day)

I understand I have no say in anything and I try to stand back and just help the kids with the situation. This has been very confusing for them because she has never been around they have ALWAYS been with their dad. It's really hard because I love them as if I had them myself. BM constantly talks court around them and tells them their going to live with her, move with her, "pick when they get older", etc. Their 5 and 3 lady give me a break!!

You dont have to stop bothering her....shes a grown up. You can post pictures to face book....shes not their agent. I gave my wife power of attorney so she can take the kids to doctors....shes speaking for me, not my ex....my ex said something to our judge and he understood it wasnt for my wife to take away any say in emergency issues but gave us a buffer in case work issues came up during a normal check up. My ex also tried to tell the judge she didnt want my mkids to be flower girls in my wedding....how do you think that worked out??

Whats the Temp Court Order say as far as custody??

Nevada did say that failing grades is a change in circumstances that warrants a change in custody.

Nowadays it wont hurt. as long as he doesnt have a revolving door of mistresses the courts realize alot of people move in prior to marriage.

I would also stop texting her IMO. If she is going off with these false accuasations then I would just not speak to her. Doing the right thing doesnt stop others from doing wrong.