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STICK TO YOUR GUNS!!

Keep your child in mind and if he wants to live with you due to school sports etc then bargain with it all in mind. A mediator will push till he gets something signed cuz its his job. My mediator tried really hard to get me to do a 50-50 arrangment and for my daughters it doesnt work. They needed the structure even my counselor said. So ex and mediator pushed and pushed and finally ex collapsed like a folding chair and I got them during school weeks and EOW.

It is weird  You arent crazy. I reiterate if the child even thinks its weird and shes the one showering with her, then it is

good advice.  ty

I had a bad fall out with my judge and he threatened to remove custody from me.  Things have gotten worse and my ex even has a criminal warrant. has still yet to pay support in 2 years, and her ex roommate kicked em out due too drugs. Something needs to be done and the consensus is I tried to get actions (supervised visitations) done without an attorney and it looked like I wanted her gone. The couple attorneys said that tends to happen with judges in nevada cuz a pro se litigant wouldnt know when to apply supervised visits or not

Thinking of maybe hiring a attorney. But it's really pricey. Do attorney's have more leverage in court? Can they not get in trouble for saying things you may. I have heard people say judges hate Pro Se litigants talking like attorneys cause they never went to law school.

Weird....yes.

Fact that a child is even saying its weird makes it worse. Thats all that needs to be said if even she is saying its weird.

her ex roommate was a mutual aquantance of ours. Due to a behavioral order, i stopped contact with her once i knew my ex lived there. she kicked her out because she was trying to help my ex get on her feet, gave her a job with her company and as soon as my ex started getting her wages garnished for child support she quit without notice and got a new job. when that job started garnishing she quit again. then her roomate said no drugs at all......well her next door neighbor came over and told her to smoke weed in the house! So my friend confronted my ex and bf and they said they would get high elsewhere and she said " no leave". When they left, she found pee clean and stuff.

my ex's ex roommate wants to testify against her....anyone know how much or little this helps??

You're certain of that?

Honestly, this scenario is not unique.  And I ran it by a CASA, a GAL, and an attorney - these are their answers.
So ummm yeah, I'm fairly certain....

A judge will not take a child away from the family that it knows and give it to a person they don't know at all.  Regardless of biology.

There is also the fact that dad is out of state.  According to an attorney:
"If the state removes the child they are LEGALLY NOT ALLOWED to place the child with someone in another state without an INTERSTATE COMPACT being completed and approved by the other state. Unless and until that happens, the child will NOT be placed with someone in another state by a state agency. They can NOT do that under the law. If they did, the agency doing the placement could find themselves in major trouble legally.   An interstate compact could take several months to complete."

Best dad can hope for right now is a visitation schedule w/ an introductory period... 

Well since the support order is from Cali, means Cali has home field advantage. Unless they are willing to give up that right. And I would assume the argument could easily be made that GREAT grandparents are getting to a age where they could become unsuitable physically to raise child.

and I can use a Karma button as well.

guess you missed the part where he has tried but since no court ordered it the mom wasnt helping.

they should hopefully place child with a parent as apposed to grand ones.

At this point, you should just tell CPS to return your child.  But CPS is full of black booted thug feminest types that will gladly but illegally claim power and control over the child and basically consider you as virtually non-existent or a "Check Book" and tell you to continue sending those CS checks (and they will also claim entitlements from the Federal govt. ... the rest of us.  They have destroyed many children.

Others may post but whatever please come back with more questions or concerns.  More importantly, don't be afraid of the system and focus on your child.   

quoted for truth!