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mother violated visitation 6 times with 3 years.I have every other weekend visits and she has physical custody, and we share joint legal custody..If i file for a enforcment what are the options? because she violated my visit on October 19, and left to Dominican Republican without my permission,and telling me my daughter would be back with her grandmom and it was a lie. I wont file custody, but i want more visitation with my daughter who 6 years, and me and the mom live in NYC, i told her let me have her 1 week with her and i take her to school . and she could 1 week with her, she said no. that's not stable.and talking crap about me....I'm trying to talk to her many times, but is like talking to a 15 year old, i will be seeing a lawyer soon. any idea would be great, Should i be filing for Joint custody?

can i reuqest for custody? without requesting for jail time? all i care is about my child.

Hello, I live in NY, so does my ex and my 6 year old daughter.She has physical custody while we share joint legal custody, and i have every other weekend visits from Friday 5pm to Sunday 6pm.My ex first violation was back in Nov, 2010 and the second was in Dec 2010, i filed a violation and was awarded make-up time.Now in 2011 she violated again and put a order of protection against me ( falsley accused) and also violated my visits again on my daughter bday, so i called the cops went to the mother house, and her father told them that she went shopping.So i filed a police report, went back to court, but the judge didn't address the issues, and told us to fix the order of protection...few months we settle, and try to fix our problem. So now another violation has oocured the mother told me she getting married to guy she met in Dominician Republican,and that she would her daughter there, i was skeptic not to let my daughter go, so my ex took me to court, and she told the judge that our daughter would be back in time for my visitation, and that her daughter would go to DR in the mother's time.So i believed her and i did sign the passport..

And than i receive a text saying" that she might not get married," and she said that my child would be back because her grandmother is going as well, and she bring her back because she got school, and i have visitation..And next thing i know ( this happend friday) she told me that her and her mother and the child are leaving Saturday October 14, and we not coming back on the 22nd of October...my visits starts on the 19..i been tricked and she left the country, her plans for the trip was been booked to leave the country the 14 and come back on the 22nd and i didn;t realize it, i been lie and maniplulate into her tricks,Now i'm going to court, and file a police report,my question is can this be a change of custody? i be texting her, and i get no answer from her, i can';t call her because she said she need a sim card that she going to buy one and call me with a different, she has not for the past few days.....

She child has a passport...We both signed, but she was supposed to leave to DR because " she was supposed to get married," on her of days of visits not me...

Yea, i will wait, my weekend is this Friday,

well i could get a transcript from the court i think i have to pay

no i will not she been doing this to long and i had make up visits before, i want in change in custody period....and we stood a juidge before, and the judge if she go to dr and violate i be granted sole custody..

vacation no? she went because she claim she was getting married, but than told me she not, i don;t if she lieing or what, she told me she not getting married, but she has to go to Domician Republican because there no refund for the ticket she spend...

she coming back Monday October 23...

she knew i had visits with my daughter, and she going play games like that...she done this before... but this time she out of the country

she was being sneaky, telling me my daughter would be back because i have visits, but it didn;t end up like that, she told me before for me to have 2 weeknds with me and the 2 weekends with her, but i said no, because is not part of my visitation agreement..

yea she coming back on the 22nd