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« on: Jan 28, 2006, 06:59:05 AM »
Soc, sorry for being long
I know it sounds like I am trying to hide somthing but in reality my mom passed away 6 years ago and left some money and investments to me. No where near 10MM!!! Sometimes they pay a nice dividend periodically but not every year and it is no were near enough for income to survive on without a job. My ex never knew about that becasue we were not married and second, I did not feel it was her business.
I was concerned that her attorney would go after those assests as I heard it can be done in custody cases forcing me to spent that. I can support my son without what I inheritated. I report everything on my tax returns so there is nothing to hide and I do not get paid under the table. I think the reason for the 5 year documents is they might know about my mothers inheritance and I also re-did a home 2 years ago to sell for a profit but the home sale was reported as income in court during the Child Support figuring. I even checked back 5 years of my tax returns and to be honest the average is what I was always been making. Nothing was really significant.
>You stated that the other parent filed for custody (I thought)
>and that could take a while to resolve. If it is resolved in
>your favor, then support may not be an issue, so discovery
>would no longer be relevant.
A year ago we had our Custody Trial with Shared-parenting being orderd. My ex was ordered to pay child support and medical for our son. The parenting plan adopted was by her attorney and it became ambiguitious to anyone that had contact with our meaning shcools, doctorc, etc.. It is too long to go into but it had marks on it crossing things out, it was never signed by my ex, me or the judge. Just too confusing but my old attorney wouldn't do anything about it.
As residential parent I had the right to make medical decisions by the parenting plan now, but my ex and her father feel I have hurt our son because of a fellow Social Worker that I explained to you earlier. Our son has some developmental problems. That is the reason she filed the motion. I am not too worried becasue my son is doing excellent and I have the documentation and it has become a control issue with her father. He is extremely wealthy and very intimidating and controlling. I fear this willno way be the last time I will be in court with my ex. I will assume when I go bankrupt then it will stop because that is the intention by my ex and her fahter..
1. Thanks for the information.
2. GAL interview is WED, any thoughts on explaining the problems I am having with her father and his controlling of the situation. (Daughter gets money if she does what daddy wants her to do)
Thanks again, I will talk to my attorney about the questions and do the best.