My fiancee and I have bee in a relationship for nearly 6 years now. I have 3 children (Girl-22, Boy-11 and Girl-10). He has 2 children (Girl-11 and Boy-6). Our children are all very close. Especially my ss the 6yr old. I still call him the baby since I have been in his life before he even had has first birthday. My fiancee and his ex separated when he was only 4 months old. The reason for my post is I am really beside myself and need some advice. This is my first time posting like this but I need to share with others who may understand how I feel. The ex-wife is a constant manipulator and has done everything she can to destroy my fiancee's life and alienate the children from him. One of her latest stunts involved her filing a request for emergency restraining order. She cited in her the petition that my 11yr old tried to sexually molest my 10 yr old sd by asking her to perform oral sex on him. That he repeatedly walks in on her in the shower and her father yells at her for saying anything about it. This is an absolute cruel LIE! The judge didn't even respond to it. We had court and the judge ruled they go to another JCC to talk with a mediator. This woman is immature, insecure and down right pissed off that her life took a turn down while my fiancee has improved his life after her. This is only one of the stunts she's pulled. There are so many....
My concern is family court documents are public record and have no burden of proof to satisfy. What happens if my son is runs for a government office or requires some security clearance and these lies surface. Not only that, as his mother how do I allow her to slander him like that. He has done nothing to this psycho but treat her 6 year old son like a little brother. He has taught him how to build great lego creations, play chess and my son still will play cars with the youngest to make him happy. As his mother I want some recourse. I want to protect my son from being attacked and his name dragged into this drama.
Do any of you have background on a situation like this?
Thanks.
My concern is family court documents are public record and have no burden of proof to satisfy. What happens if my son is runs for a government office or requires some security clearance and these lies surface. Not only that, as his mother how do I allow her to slander him like that. He has done nothing to this psycho but treat her 6 year old son like a little brother. He has taught him how to build great lego creations, play chess and my son still will play cars with the youngest to make him happy. As his mother I want some recourse. I want to protect my son from being attacked and his name dragged into this drama.
Do any of you have background on a situation like this?
Thanks.