Welcome to SPARC Forums. Please login or sign up.

Apr 19, 2024, 08:25:09 PM

Login with username, password and session length

Aussie

Started by skye, Oct 07, 2004, 02:18:18 PM

Previous topic - Next topic

skye

Any news at all yet? still praying for you and your daughter

wendl

Aussie,
We hope not hearing from you is good news or that you are just playing the waiting game.

Best of luck, please keep us updated.

:)

**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**

aussierules

Sorry but I have not been here for a while. No decision yet from the judge but this week is 60 days so he has to write some orders. I have been dealing with the GAL and my daughter's therapist who do not believe the court appointed shrink and ar doing their best to have him play no further role in this case. I am of course trying to keep their eye on his findings which revealed her complex personality disorder. Mum has made new allegations about my child having suicidal thoughts and according to a third hand communication someone told the therapist but I found out due to one of those "oh by the way" conversations between my attorney 2 days later on the court house steps when they happened to see one another. I do not think my child reported this but once again it was mum doing it. This would be entirely consistent with her MO so no real change there.

Please keep my little girl and me in your thoughts. We are hanging in there and I hope to have good news to report out soon.

AUSSIE OUT

Stepmom0418

Aussie,

You and your daughter are still in our prayers. We are still praying for the best for you and most important for your daughter!!


Stepmom0418 and family!

aussierules

All of your words mean a lot to me. I just hope Judge M. has the courage to do what is right not what is PC. In small towns & counties it is often too much to ask but I am reminded by counsel and others who know him that this judge as a divorced dad knows what I am up against and will be a fair jurist. I hope I am still saying that when the time comes.

Stepmom0418

Keep praying Aussie! I am have a feeling that the child will win in this!! I believe that if you keep up your hard work, faith, courage that something good has to come of all of this and the your daughter will be safe and out of harms way!

aussierules

2 weeks ago my daughter's therapist told me on a recorded call that she didn't believe that mum suffered from the things that she was diagnosed with. She made these statements despite having insufficient credentials to do so. The therapist refuses to meet with me to discuss the status of the therapy that she is providing even though she is legally required to do so. She will not present a treatment plan because she has none. She has outgrown her usefulness. It is my job as my child's father to protect her from this unnecessary therapy. It is just hard with the threats from the GAL. I shall continue on because I think it is the right thing to do.

AUSSIE OUT

Stepmom0418

Aussie, You know your daughter the best and you know what is in her best interest!! You do what you have to do to protect your daughter but as you are doing the best for your daughter always remember to CYA as well!!

I personally believe that you are looking out for your daughter in all you are doing! I compliment you for that! Your daughter will thank you later in life for all you have done and continue to do!

You and your daughter will remain in my prayers as this continues! Please keep us posted here at sparc as I know that others are concerned as well.
 

I pray that the courts will put a stop to the maddness and protect you and your daughter!

aussierules

I am doing what I think is right because I am trying to contemplate what it must be like for my child as she suffers through this. I continue to push for the court appointed psychologist to meet with the GAL & my child's therapist to explain to them what suffering from BPD etc. really means to my daughter in terms of mum's ability to parent. The ladies are resistant but the logic is sound. We are still awaiting a response to our request for a treatment plan which she does not have but before I take her to task I want to give her the chance to produce it. We'll see. I am not holding my breath.

AUSSIE OUT

aussierules

Sorry but I have not been here for a while. No decision yet from the judge but this week is 60 days so he has to write some orders. I have been dealing with the GAL and my daughter's therapist who do not believe the court appointed shrink and ar doing their best to have him play no further role in this case. I am of course trying to keep their eye on his findings which revealed her complex personality disorder. Mum has made new allegations about my child having suicidal thoughts and according to a third hand communication someone told the therapist but I found out due to one of those "oh by the way" conversations between my attorney 2 days later on the court house steps when they happened to see one another. I do not think my child reported this but once again it was mum doing it. This would be entirely consistent with her MO so no real change there.

Please keep my little girl and me in your thoughts. We are hanging in there and I hope to have good news to report out soon.

AUSSIE OUT