I don't know if I stated the situation clearly, but I DON'T want CPS
involved. I am trying to take care of any possible situation so that CPS is never involved. CPS is too quick to jump to conclusions and take the children out of parents custody while they "investigate". There have been way too many CPS incidences, especially here in Washington state where false allegations are made and before anything is investigated, the children are pulled out of their safe, healthy environment and tossed into the system, while they deliberate.
I am more looking for an evaluation of her parenting skills, along with making sure their environment with her is a healthy one.
If the day comes that her boyfriend is busted for drug use
or whatnot, and the children are in the house at the time, they will not hesitate to get the children out of the situation. I never want them in that situation. And if CPS were to learn that I had knowledge of this activity, but still allowed the children to go there, that could put me in a bad situation as well. People are too quick to get CPS involved.