I don't know if BM
parents know her or not. I have tried looking up her name (would like to post it here, is that against rules?). Her reasoning for supervised is DV case pending. I was previously Majestic Stone here before someone wiped out many enteries. Mine did not return, but simple rundown is BM took kids to meth house. I found out (not from her) that she was doing the stuff. She lied for weeks about things, until I found her stash. Then she had to come down. She became abusive towards my 3 yr old girl (yelling and pushing). We ended up getting in an arguement, and she hit me hard in the face. I did not hit her back (thank God she didnt think to claim that when police took report). I called her parents and told them everything. They came over and started argueing with me. Her mom called the police and when they arrived they took statements from her and her parents, not from me. They did take a picture of my face and stated report would be submitted for review. I incurred 6000 dollars in hospital bills, and then was taken to jail for disorderly conduct (yelling at her), disorderly conduct provoking (yelling at her dad after he started poking finger at my chest), and criminal damage (ripping my face out of wedding pictures after this happened). She was never charged and when I asked to have her charged, other officer said he wasnt going to "step on anyones toes." Crooked system, what about my children?
? BM father is good friends with chief of police, and I think somehow this is why she isnt being charged. I have some vague proof of her drug use
(texts to her friend almost begging her to stop giving her dope, and that it is tearing family apart. Phone calls to my mom and a friend of mine who I called after finding her stash. All between 4 days and 2 weeks prior to this incident. I dont want her to lose right to kids, but I dont want her taking mine away either! I have 1300+pictures of my children and over 200 videos (from birth to date). I will print some out, thanks. Do you think I should get statements from my mom and my friend for evaluator? Show her texts? This would be bashing, but are also the absolute true facts of what transpired. I do have an atty but I currently owe him 3000+ dollars on top of the 8500 I have already given him. I am broke, but thankful that he will work with me. BM even sent my entire family e-mail stating I have DV case pending, and she does not. Along with several other comments. I wish I could make the whole story public somehow. I am telling the truth and she has since claimed sexual abuse w/my children, physical abuse on her, and physical abuse of my children. All of which is untrue. Her deposition did not go well for her when asked questions regarding these claims. CPS
report didnt look too good for her either. I should bring copy of deposition and cps report to evaluation also, yes? Guess I worry that I will begin just 'bashing mom' instead of showing how I am a good father to my kids, and only want whats in their best interests. Taking them away from dad on technical charge, when her dads influence and their lies kept her from being charged, is NOT IN THE BEST INTERST OF MY SON AND DAUGHTER! God says to save the judging for Him, but I am so exhausted from all of this. Constantly defending myself, when she is the one who did wrong. Sounds bad, but I hope that this evaluation thing backfires on them, just like the CPS thing did.