They live in a small suburb, about 25,000 people. Hopefully, the odds will be better that way.
H used to be part of that particular religion, but left the church some years ago. So, her stance is now that we are immoral and not living by the church standards. Um..which would be true, as we don't attend that church. But, she then uses it as a reason to try and withhold the children.
It gets kinda old. I've told H if all of the people in that religion use it as a battering ram, I can't really see anything to recommend it.