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Custody and Visitation for 3 year

Started by fox, May 05, 2011, 11:07:32 AM

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fox

Quote from: ocean on May 09, 2011, 04:42:08 PM
Did you make sure it was cancelled?
Depends on your courts...some MAKE you do mediation first. Call your family court house and see.

Is she going to drop the case? If she made no real try to see him when he was in your state???

I would email her if you can and just write down what happened...without really yelling at her..lol
Ex
I am a little confused. We were supposed to have mediation on XX but got you text that you needed to cancel. You did not make any attempt to see XX while in NV. Are you coming back here for mediation?
You

Then you can get proof with her response that she was there and missed mediation and did not ask to see child.

Since this is her case...let it go. Now she will have to reschedule and fly back up to you... No court order, no flight this summer, so now you def will not get court orders for this summer so you wont have to worry too much about that.

If she drops case, go get custody in your state...

Yes I made sure it was canceled. I have the text messages she sent.

I don't know if she will drop the case, she would not discuss anything with me.

She made no attempt to see him at all, however she did go to her other son's baseball game to see him. She got to Vegas late Friday night and I waited all day for her to call and let me know when she wanted to see her son.... nothing.  So I decided to go to my son's brother's baseball game (which was my plan before she informed me she would be visiting).

I showed up at the game and was shocked to see her there. I walked over to her with our son and she just stared at him then turned to watch the game. She did not even acknowledge him until I kept encouraging him to go say hi and after 15 minutes of encouragement he walk over and tried to get her attention. She said about two sentences then kinda ignored him.

I have the text messages between us regarding the ECC and they are similar to your suggested email. Do you think I should email her saying this same thing or will the text messages be good enough? (I can forward the texts to my email and print out a paper copy so they are not just recorded on my phone.)

I did not ask her if she planned on being her for mediation, though. I don't know if she even knows that she may need to attend. I am sure however that she can not afford to make another trip up here so soon after this one.

MixedBag

regarding court and appointments and stuff, NEVER believe what SHE said -- or he said -- always confirm with the court itself.