Thanks for responses. It is difficult to explain things in this setting and I am trying to keep things brief. I hired a Private Investigator who followed her for 3 days and his report showed her back at the casino 45 minutes away, leaving the 2 little girls overnight with her 14 year old son (who is also diabetic). When I called CPS
, they advised me to call police next time I know this is happening since to have her so far away for so long a time frame is concerning. So next time her (ex wife's) sister called me about seeing her car at the casino, I did that. When my parents and I met the ex at a ferry terminal to return the girls (we were over there for the week end), she accused me of putting a devise on her car (the PI did that and when I told her that, that is how she found out about the PI) and also because my uncle was on the same ferry, she was accusing us of having him follow her. (not true, it was coincidental) I tried to get her to talk to me before getting on the ferry and she portrayed to the ferry person tjat I was trying to keep her from leaving. She claims that I call her repeatedly late at night, but never call after 8 PM and only so I can talk to the girls, about 1-3 times per week, will keep trying only if she doesn't respond. One time, I called the police because I was worried she had gone to the casino and left the girls alone. I cannot believe anything she says, as she has repeatedly lied and tries to hide her gambling activities (she tells people there that she has a night job). She claims that I want to know everything she does at every minute, which is not true although I was trying to get her to tell me who her boyfriend was because the girls spend time with him and talk about him.
The newest information is that it turns out the RO was served on me before it was signed, so it wasn't yet legal, so now her lawyer is going to take the information to try to change the parenting plan
to include things such as only one phone call per week on Sunday evenings, that I am barred from having her followed, that I need to reimburse her the $750 that it cost her to file the paperwork, that I can't call the police, etc. I still don't get much information from my lawyer although I keep sending her information and calling. I have tried to get all my ducks in a row and responding to the accusations, but now wait.