You are right. I probably shouldn't be so judgemental. I have known this woman from the past and let's just say in my opinion she made some decisions that I definitely don't agree with. People do change. From what I've been told custody was awarded to her husband and she has very minimal visitation. Now why that is you are correct, I don't know. But put that together with what I do know and that is where I draw the conclusion. In the state where I live its not often that father's are awarded full custody
with the mother having minimal visitation of teenage girls. But you are correct I don't know. Its just a red flag to me and makes me nervous. As for the suicide threat. I talked to the girl who was there when he made the threat. She informed me that she did not call the police and she thought he just said it because he got busted dating 4 girls at once. So since there is no police report I'm assuming there really isn't anything I can do about that either since there is not a record of it. I am going to ask him about it directly but I'm pretty sure he is going to lie to me and tell me he never said it. Up until now I have never worried about DD when she was with him. And I considered myself lucky since I have read so many stories about how people have to worry about whether their kids are going to come home after visits or if the other parent will allow them to visit. I really thought things were going very well for us. And it took me a while to get to that point and I was finally there and red flags are popping up. Am I just over reacting again because I tend to do that with DD as I truly just want what's best for her? When we first did our parenting plan
BF was not seeing DD at all. I was the one wanted it in the decree so that if he did want to start seeing DD later we would not need to go back to court. I am wondering now if there are some things that weren't thought about and maybe should talked about, come to an agreement about and put in writing.