I feel we have finally conquered the system...well, for now anyway. DS is only 4. This could change at any time and we honestly expect it to.
In the beginning we wanted 50/50 visitation and no child support
and dad to carry insurance. We were fought at every corner, even the insurance because she knew she would have to pay co-pays and split anything not covered. Child is also on state insurance and that won't end.
We just filed a modification of child support because after our last hearing the support went up and then a week later the state made him add the insurance., which was a big chunk of change. Also, a week after the last mod the BM
went from a min wage part time job to a factory job of 60 hours a week. She did that on purpose.
So we went to modification. Now we have what we asked for in the beginning....50/50 visitation and no child support and dad has insurance. We even got a small check back from the state on overpayment.
Just wanted to share our good news. Sometimes the good guy really does win.