In WV, where I was PRO SE, YES, I received a copy and was allowed to respond etc.
SO...quite honestly, I'm a "take charge" person (yep, pro se).
I would write the court a letter and send it to them, your attorney, and other attorney.
I would ask for an extension for two reasons:
1. In court, the judge stated that XYZ was supposed to happen. Instead you are received ABC.
2. Your attorney is out of town until DATE and is unable to properly and promptly respond to this matter on your behalf.
DON'T go into great detail -- because you do have an attorney.
AND you have to send it to everyone and their brother......(and send it priorty confirmed delivery, so NO ONE can deny receiving it.)