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mommy nurse

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Is this a type of Parental Alienation?
« on: Sep 04, 2012, 11:53:10 pm »
 I discovered that the father of my child did not include my address and phone number in our daughter's school paper.  He wrote down, "don't know" on my address and "none"  on my phone  number.  We have joint legal custody.  My question is, is this some form of parental alienation?  And now that he has her most of the time during school days, I know I will have less chance of talking to her as well.  He already warned me about this how he will do the same thing.  He was building a case by which I NEVER denied him from speaking to our daughter, 4, with a mild autism.  He manifests sociopath syndrome and he will exploit, lie and will keep lying about things for his own benefits. 


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Re: Is this a type of Parental Alienation?
« Reply #1 on: Sep 05, 2012, 04:56:23 am »
Since you are in the middle of court, bring that with you to prove he is not including you with school. Ask the school for your own welcome packet, and fill out your own form for them. Have them put you on their mailing list and ask the teacher if they email to keep in touch and find out how she is doing in school. Many schools have parent portal so you can check daily attendance, grades, report cards.
This can also be court ordered, that both parents be included on all school forms and be invited to all school activities including school trips, plays, class parties and any event run by school or PTA (parent group).

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Re: Is this a type of Parental Alienation?
« Reply #2 on: Sep 05, 2012, 08:19:27 am »
Thank u.  Yes, I had a meeting with her special ed teacher after the school orientation and I went also to the school district so update my info.  I questioned the teacher in the beginning and she looked at me like it was not a big deal.  And this is what he was doing since she started school in feb/March.  I trusted him so much when it comes to our daughter in this school but never expected my name would never be included.  I also suspect he badmouths me with her teacher and aides since I got a different treatment and approach during the parents orientation. 

But nevertheless, I donated the class stuffs listed on the 'wish list' and that was appreciated and the teacher gave me a separate whole packet for me to fill out.  And that time, she asked me questions on what I do.  I thought I gained the respect back...for whatever reason. 

Again, I will make sure this issue will also be included in the pending court hearing. 

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Re: Is this a type of Parental Alienation?
« Reply #3 on: Sep 05, 2012, 01:38:06 pm »
You've mentioned 'sociopath' a couple times....since you've been in court, have psych. evals. been done?  If not, it may be something you might want to consider....
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Re: Is this a type of Parental Alienation?
« Reply #4 on: Sep 05, 2012, 06:47:56 pm »
You've mentioned 'sociopath' a couple times....since you've been in court, have psych. evals. been done?  If not, it may be something you might want to consider....

Yes!!! Actually this is what I have been wanting to do.  I thought I asked this issue in other topic, had to find it.  Will it cost me?  His lifestyle, manipulation, lies covered with lies all throughout his relationship with me and others describes a sociopath.  All the checklists matches him.  Any advice how to emphasize this matter to the court?


 

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