OK,
First of all, I'm tired of this new board being empty so I'm going to post something!
We just learned this weekend that SS9 has been seeing some kind of mental health professional.
DH asked
BM about it Sunday and she got hysterical ... of course, blaming DH for it (the boy is having tornado dreams because when DH and BM first moved to Ohio, a tornado came close to hitting the area they lived in ... that was 4 years ago).
Even though she has
sole custody and it doesn't specifically say that she should tell DH about this kind of thing, shouldn't she tell DH about it? It does say specifically in the decree that he is to have access to all
medical records, including psychological records. If DH doesn't know that his son is being seen by a
psychologist (or whatever) and who that person is, how can he have access?
Also, we think this psychologist might be her BIL who is not really a psychologist, but a brain surgeon who took a few psychology classes during his brain studies. Any advice on what we can do about that?
We are in the middle of a custody battle with BM now (we just want joint decision making rights and more time in the summer and winter holidays ... BM is refusing both). Mediation failed (of course). DH gave in to several of her demands (me not coming with him to exchange the kids and me not talking to the kids on the phone among them) but she refused to give in on anything. I hope the mediator has a way to at least let the judge know who was willing to cooperate and who was not.
We are Greene county.
Thanks.