>I know that if I were to not let my child go to a scheduled
>visitation with her father he could take me to court and get a
>make up visit. I would look bad in court. My question is,
>what if the father is the one who doesn't show for the visits?
> We had 4 scheduled visits set up and he only showed for 2.
Essentially, if there are no visitation orders in place, then its hard to go into court and say he doesnt excercise his visitation.
>There is no order in place right now, only what the father and
>I agree on but he said that he doesn't want to set up any
Why is it that he can drag me into court for this but
>he can go months and months without seeing his child, calling,
>or even emailing her!!!??
Keep documenting to show a pattern of behavior. Altho, I am having a hard time understanding exactly what status his visitation orders are at.
If there is going to be visitation
>then shouldn't the father be consistant in her life? Instead
>of just seeing her twice a year? He has the chance of seeing
>her at his parent's house whenever he wants to but he does not
>take advantage of that privalige.
Once again, I get the sense that there is more to the story here. Why should he have to see her at his parents home? Im really unclear here .
Is there anything I can do?
> If he isn't going to be a 100 percent dad then I don't want
>him in her life at all. Any advice would be helpful, thank
Sorry,, we all would love to see the other parent be a better parent, be more involved, do what we want em to,, but guess what?? You dont have that control over him, nor should you have.