Before you get too far with an atty that say's the chicken thing .listen up .
Don't deal with an atty that isn't Just telling you the process in your state , And I don't know who the expert that is to investigate your home is , But here this is a Guardian Ad Litem , You need to find out if this is a court appointed GAL that will come over , then You will know that this Investigater is just part of the process , I would not get to excited about all of this , It seems like a big deal to Be investigated , I would ask your atty . First I would talk to several atty's And If any of them know your atty ,No comment speaks loud in the atty buiseness , But there confidence In your atty Is what you are looking for , And some answeres about if they appoint GALS in your area ,So The first thing you need to find out is If You can get a Guardian A litem appointed where you are , What is the usual is they find the there is no proof to her allegation 's . And here the court won't do anything untill they see a GAL report < the reason is the judge or commissioner ,Doesn't want the local news down at the court with camera's saying theres the judge that gave the kids to a serial killer , And the Judge doesn't investigate , they are busy being the Judge , So some one else does that job , In My case the GAl reported that there was no proof to her allegations , And I should have a
parenting plan that Oulines the visit schedual , When the Judge saw this report I was then able to get unsupervised visits , At first I had to have supervised visits because of the same BS , And LISTEN UP , The court has seen this kind of stuff All the time . So getting involved in a bunch of he said she said is a waste of time , If there are FACTS that mean some one is a incompetant parent ,Or a pevert . Or a drug addict , ther could be a problem , But I may add, they don't restrict parenting time If you are an alchoholic , (My atty said So ) So I am a bit leary of an atty that tells you to put all your chickens in the water , [MUSt] be a real city slicker [or] a cook , Because chickens don't like water and they drown ,. Just a fact from a country boy , But His comment leads me to believe he is saying this is some big fight , $$$$$ . But In Wash state [pierce county ] This means appoint a GAL , And I think this is the investigater She has appointed , And you have to play along with this , And its not a big deal , But My atty gave me advise to Have a room set up With a bed and toys and diapers etc , Becuase the GAL [usually ] Report like the first one in My case ,And She was an atty , And made one trip to my house , and Said I have the house ready for a baby , and I have a job ,And None of Moms stories could be verified , And there was no police record that verified Moms report , So You need to find out if this is the procees in your area , If it is the atty can't really do much except give you advise , The other reason for the GAL Is because the judge knows that They atty's both represent the PAying parent to get an out come for the parent , In my case the order was called ORDER TO APPOINT GUARDIAN AD LITEM ON BEHALF OF MINOR CHILD , so then the judge wants to see this report ,And they won't do much untill they do , It is imperative that you find out if this is the process, Post again when you find if this is a GAL or you can get one , And if you get one , Make sure the order say's both parties pay ,And tell you atty to say you want atty fee's , That way if she asks You deby her atty fees and are telling the court you have a reason to get them ,Now if the GAl gets appointed , Spend time making yourself out to be a good parent , And less time in the he said she said , Don't give out any info they can't prove , Generally if they can't prove it , it is hearsay , But I would keep talking to the atty , And find out what the next step is, it should be a proposed parenting plan , And an ORDER TO APPOINT gUARDIAN AD LITEM , dON'T GIVE UP !! i HAD THE SAME SITUATION AND i HAVE A PARENTING PLAN , you can email if you want ,
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