You can vent anytime. Sometimes that is all that helps us get through the day! My prayers are with you...
I think that something you can let your
DH know is that it isn't him getting nasty by getting a set schedule! It is him protecting that little being that obviously doesn't have anyone else doing that for her. Not only will it maybe prevent this from happening again, and possibly save her live in doing so, but it will also give her some stability that she doesn't sound like she has with
BM and something to look forward to!
Also, I gotta tell you that it can really save you alot of hurt in the future. Let's say this happens again and no one is there to get her, BM can say we had this set and they are just not fulfilling their obligations. Then the responsibility is put on you guys as well as the reprecussions...that could be horrible!!!
I know it is hard when you are playing with someone that is 51 cards short of a full deck...if you ever want to talk...let me know!