Well NCP moved to another state and took kids originally. Then I won sole custody
in Pendente a year ago. NCP chooses to remain in other state in order to live free with relatives causing the travel for the kids. NCP quit job as soon as I got modification allowing child support
.NCP had her Atty fight to meet at an earlier time , when I modified original visitation order, due to my new work schedule . Then NCP has Atty call mine 4 hours before the visit (the one she argued for ealier time on) and cancels, not just the Friday, but entire weekend.
The excuse was , no reliable transportation and relative she lives with had prior weekend obligation and couldnt help her out. I found out that NCP went to a sport event Friday night and relatives were right there as well.
I think I was right when I guessed that if I don't enforce that NCP must at least be "present" at the exchange, she would send whoever to get the kids.
She has these 2 very young children traveling over 600 miles EOW by car, between Friday night and Sunday night, thats 1200 miles a month !!
Yes, at final decree, I am going do all I can to eliminate that travel for the children. NCP can visit every weekend, but she should be the one doing the travel.....opinions ???