I have recently been in a court proceeding with my children's BF. It is a nightmare!! The SM is clinically depressed as well as bi polar and has attempted to her life SEVERAL times and is now on to threatening mine (BM
) and our children.
Long story short the GAL AGREED she had a long mental health history, she AGREED that she threatened our lives, she AGREED that the incidents that I described occured, but DIDNOT see anything wrong with her having children in her care!
They lied through their teeth right down to changing the parenting schedule that we had and fabricating it to what they really wanted and said that was how it had been for X amount of years.
It is unbelievable!!! Now since the GAL report is in and in their favor, of course they think this is all over and I am supposed to hand over the children. Now I am all for them seeing their BF, never blocked, never alienated, never nothing, always supported their relationship with their dad, I just don't trust the SM.
I have been through this before with my DH
EXW, but I must have amnesia because for the life of me I can't remember what comes next, do I file a motion? I have some stipulations I would like added to the order if they are to go back there, but he won't agree to anything.
I am at my wits end trying to compromise and be the bigger person. I have prayed my brains out trying to find the right path, but my gut keeps saying, get some rules in place, get some rules in place, so they are protected while at their BF's house.
Anyone have any suggestions on how to combat 2 liars and a GAL that bought their story hook, line, and sinker?
Any and all suggestions welcome!