FAQ Category: Custody Related Questions I'm new to all this...where do I start? Where can I find information about my State's child custody laws and statutes? At what age can my child decide who he/she wants to live with? I want to change custody. What do I have to do? Where can I find some general information on Joint Custody? What are some good arguments that support Joint Custody? Can my child talk to the judge and tell him where he wants to live? I'm worried that the other parent is going to 'snatch' the children and hide- what can I do? Do I have the right to see my child's school records? How can I get my child's report cards and other school records? How can I get my child's medical records? My child's school records don't list me as the father/mother. How can I fix this? What is the "Right of First Refusal"? Is unemployment a factor in awarding custody? My ex is (or was) using drugs; will that help me get custody? Go to page 1 2 3 4 FAQ Statistics