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Title: Does this letter sound good to you for me to send to X?
Post by: ksswthrt74 on Dec 30, 2003, 10:19:20 AM
Dear Soc,
   Right now my X and I have reasonable parenting time.  We go to court in March to get either custody changed or it changed to Shared Custody.   He has denied me several times on days that the girls are out of school and its my "agreed" parenting time weekend.  Does this sound good enough to you?  

Thanks for all of you help and advice.


Dear X,
OD and YD are out of school on 1-16 and 1-19. These days fall during my "agreed" parenting time weekend. I am going to pick them up at 10 am on 1-16, for my weekend parenting time and will return them to school on Tuesday morning.
It is standard practice for the non-custodial parent to get the kids on school holidays when it is their parenting weekend.

Sincerely,

Ksswthrt74



Do I need to put more in there or less? Please tell me. Thank you very much.
Title: Nope...
Post by: socrateaser on Jan 06, 2004, 07:55:16 PM
Don't say that it is "standard practice," because it's not standard practice. What it is is "REASONABLE" for you to have some exercise of visitation/custody during the time the kids are out of school, and that's what you should say. Then, it's up to the other parent to state why it is UNREASONABLE for you to have time with the kids.

:)