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I couldn't agree with you more! you are dead on.

imagine this crap. My ex is trying to regain custody because i've asked for child support to be paid and now 14 months later, i'm way upside down finanically on what i'll collect versus what i've paid out in atty fees for the next 7 to 8 yrs of her childhood. However the court system has allowed this mother to file motion after motion after motion to stall and TRY to regain custody.

if the courts were truly unbiased they would have smashed her 1st motion and said this is nonsense you are filing this in retailation to him asking for money. BUT they allow BullSH** motions to be filed to run up fees and make the court system what it is today.

Can anyone explain my situation then? Custodial dad not be paid child support in over 4 yrs, yet the court has allowed my motion to be sitting for over 14 months. I think the system SUCKS and we need to fight this mockery of a court system to prevent this from happening to future generations. I'd like to see someone step up and get a national organization together so we can fight the court system full force.

If i was the NCP i would be in jail right now because i'm a MAN. A woman they are affraid to do anything because they are MOMMY!

Give me a break, our system hates dads and puts them down like they are worthless. Majority of all dads should have their children and not the so called "mothers". My daughter wasn't even walking when her mother left us. now almost 10 yrs later, i'm still fighting the court and my ex. I should only be fighting the ex not the courts.

The system does suck. Am many of you on here know i'm a custodial parent attempting to get my ex to pay 4 years of back child support but being a MAN the courts aren't doing anything to make this mother pay child support. I've dumped thousands into the atty lap and can't get a hearing on the facts of the case, yet the ex is trying to take my daughter away and this fight has been going on since Mid 2006, so i truly believe their is a sexual bias here as well as a system that's BROKE.

However, if it was a woman that was owed the child support the man would be in Jail.....

Ref,
the only thing i have is my 2nd marriage didn't work. That being said i have a couple of charge offs on a couple of credit cards because i had to re-establish myself financailly. I make over $70K a year so have enough income but i hit hard times when my 2nd left us. 2nd marriages are tough!!!!

The only thing i can think of is my 2nd wife will try to team up with the 1st and make false allegations. However, if she did it would be he said he said sorta of thing. The only reason my 2nd ex would do this is to try to get me to loose custody of my child i've had all her life (11 yrs). But we never had family violence. just normal arguments. So if she claims that were's the police reports, medical reports etc? there isn't any because it never happened......

positives~
almost 11 years of status quo.
child doing great in school.
i've paid 100% of my child's living without having support from ex.
ex left when child was 1.
ex moved 850 miles away etc.....

Ref,

simple question you state in your post once a order is set it is very hard to change. are you referring to a temporary order or a order that's been established?
with temporary orders what do you have to show to change the order as compared to a order that's been established for quite sometime?


Wlr107
do you have temporary orders in place since you have been separated or was there a written agreement between the two? the reason I ask is because if you have established some sort of pattern it should hold some significance with the courts. What I'm saying is if you have had the children with this type of visitation pattern she might have to prove something has changed in order to stop the current schedule.

Ref,

simple question you state in your post once a order is set it is very hard to change. are you referring to a temporary order or a order that's been established?
with temporary orders what do you have to show to change the order as compared to a order that's been established for quite sometime?


Wlr107
do you have temporary orders in place since you have been separated or was there a written agreement between the two? the reason I ask is because if you have established some sort of pattern it should hold some significance with the courts. What I'm saying is if you have had the children with this type of visitation pattern she might have to prove something has changed in order to stop the current schedule.

from what i understand I believe that if she has the kids around a registered offender he is in violation being around kids and she is in vioation of the texas statute having placed the kids in that envirorment. I would just do some snooping around maybe hire a PI to follow the NEW guy and to run a back ground check on him

what part of Texas do you reside and what county? I know some good attys in Texas.

your missing the point. it's a sexually biased system. the system works when a dad owes the $$ but it's opposite when a mother owes. It's a great system for mothers but for dads????

Mist,
I understand you point and I'd say 99% of the time you are correct and have great points. However, what amount my ex owes me is still owed and I haven't collected one red cent. So I'm not sure the government cares about back child support from a mother because it's not the norm.
Thanks
John