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Per Social Services arriving at your home, unless they have a Court Order summons, they can not enter your home. Conduct the interview outside.

My exwife pulled this garbage as well. Let your husband cry wolf. Trust me, it is scary but after time his assertions will become diluted.

My ex pulled this stunt. First, start documenting your efforts to see the children. Try emails, certified mail, and phone logs. Second, you do need to respond to her filing; there are deadlines. Third, you are the child's father, and she can not deny you contact barring a court order. One thing I would make sure I would include in your interrogatories would be questions challenging her mental and physical capabilities as a parent. Get her medical records. The fact that she needs others to care for her in order for her to care for the children will not help her case.

When you talk about being permanently institutionalized, is this the result of some mental instability? If so, I would also force her to have a full blown forensic evaluation. You can do these steps on your own, but if the issues are contentious, you may want an attorney.

You can show up at the house and ask for the children, again, barring no court order. I'm sure the ex will threaten to call the cops and the cops won't do anything if no court order. As a parent, legal guardian you can have equal access to those kids.

My psycho ex-wife pulled that BS as well. By law, you are the parent. You have every legal right to the children. Barring an Order, which does appear to be present, you can take the children with you and without her interference. Your ex will threaten to call the cops; the cops can not do anything since there is no order and you are the parent. Of course, do you want to pit your children in a bitter tug-of-war?

Your wife's unilateral demands on the scheduling need to be met head on. You must document every effort you make for purposes of trying to demonstrate that she is not doing what is in the best interest of the children. Also, my advice to you is to keep your grandmother or mother around. Sounds like your ex has some serious mental issues and I wouldn't be surprised if she claims assault by means of a restraining order against you.

If I were you, go to Court and get this resolved.

Thanks

My ex continues to sleep with our two daughters under the age of 7. Recently, it came back in her Forensic Evaluation that she was possibly molested as a child, mentally ill (bi-polar, OCD, histrionic, anxieity NOS, narcisstic, suicidal), enjoys lesbian pornography, and the grandfather stated that the children have given him open mouth kisses.


Am I losing my mind but this sounds like she might be sexually involved with the girls now. Thoughts? Does anybody know the statistics on mother-daughter incest?

Each state has rules for recording third parties. It is dependent on the state where the recording was made. For example, I live in MD and each party has to agree to the recording. Barring disclosure of the recording, you could set yourself up for a lawsuit. However, recordings left on an answering machine is admissable.

The photo was in the photoalbum. The wife mysteriously recalled the image a week before trial and argued that the pix was disgusting even though it was in the photoalbum of a 2 year old's butt.

My attorney and I laughed at the charge and pix because he said he had the same pix in his album of his daughters. We were stunned at the PL.

With a complete record now, I do not see how they can rule on preponderance of evidence when there is fact that no molestation or sexual exploitation occurred.

PL is pendente lite in MD. The information has NOT yet been placed on the record ergo the preponderance of evidence. Now that I have factual information exhonerating me, I'd think the liklihood of preponderance of evidence can't happen. Concerned that it only takes one idiot judge to overlook the record and buy this BS.

Do note that in MD you do not want pixs of your children in tubs, diaper changing, topless, etc. Moreover the pixs do not show any genitialia but a butt. MD the best interest of a child is that you may sexually exploit your child with such a pix.

My only comfort is that the ex has filed molestation charges against me earlier in the nightmare and dismissed the charges even though I had to be investigated. The fact that she is making false claims and dismisses the charges should squash this preponderacne at final

At the PL I got hammered by means of a picture in our family photoalbum whereby my wife claimed and won that I sought sexual exploitation of my child because the picture was an image of my 2 year olds butt. Since then I have been completely exhnonerated by CPS of no molestation, a Forensic Evaluation which concluded that my wife was possibly molested and no identifiers of me as a pedophile, and two medical reports that my child was not molested.

My concern is that I know my wife will bring up the image again at the final hearing in mid-August. Has anybody had experience and hopefully success at a final where the facts state no molestation or sexual exploitation of a child even though there was a loss at the PL based upon preponderance of evidence?

Comments would be appreciated?

If you are still legally married with no divorce papers filed, they are your children and you can move them regardless of her novice knowledge of various statutory codes. Has an order been filed? Has paperwork been filed? If not, you should strike first. You should ask for custody. It appears that she is the one who took the kids without your consent and knowledge.

Keep emailing her request and allow her to respond as an idiot. This will give you documentation at the hearing and in your discovery (interrogatories).

What this nut does not realize, unless the legal system has started, you are their father. Even when the system grants custody regardless of custody, the kids have a mother and father and your wife needs to realize that and grow up.