i need to explain somethings my ex wife has accused my new wife of alot of things from drug use to harrassment.She has even acused my Mother of harrassment. The people that supervise the vists are friends of my ex wife.
They all go to church together and are paying my ex wifes legal fees.Her Lawyer told the Judge this.A different Judge one not familer with this case ordered the evals.My cost is 750 for mine 750 for my new wife and 450 for my child.
My new wife has 2 children that i support fully their father is not in their lives.I dont have credit cards a bank account or any way to get a loan.This custody battle has been going on for 3 yrs.I had a eval before and it only stated that my daughter needed to be returned to me ASAP.
My ex wife's eval was a whole different story.The eval Stated she needed extensive therapy anger management different meds ect ect.It also stated that in the evals opinion that the child should never be alone with her.
My daughter is in counsling and even on meds.They say she is borderlined post tramatic stress and she suffers from anxiety related to the visits with her mom.They stated that overnights needed to be stopped but the GAL didnt agree.
The GAL has been to my ex wifes home has even dropped in on her visits with notice to my ex before a visit.He refuses to come to our home or even sit in on a counsling session.He will not meet with her teachers or doctor.
The last evals we all summited to are a little over a yr old.My ex does not pay support .i do recieve a very small SSI check of 135 a month.My ex is dissabled and doesnt draw much for herself.
I am paying for daughters medical expenses with a payment plan.I had to get a different vehicle because of the extensive trips out of town for court and visits.I am ordered to provide transportation for 1 visits.The court and juristiction for my case is 4 hrs away in the same state. The GAL is 5 hrs away.
My expenses sometimes far exceed my income.I told my lawyer i could not afford in the alloted time frame of 6 weeks to come up with the type of money I need for the evals.I could have it if I stop paying rent let them repo the vehicle which is almost paid for remove my BD from counsling ect ect.
I have sold every non essential need from our home from earlier hearings to pay legal bills.All I need is more time but my lawyer is refusing to ask for it.He says we need to remain the good guys in this.I have done everything and everything he states to me
I have given my ex more time during a visit extra visits even offering to bring my ex here for school thingsI get repaid with a cussing out over the phone.I have done both visits in a month bent over backwards to rearrange work and schedules to accomidate my ex .I even bought BD a whole wardrobe to have at her Moms because BM refused to let her wear the clothes i sent.
Its not that we dont want to do the evals I just need more time to be able to afford them and post phoneing 1 hearing and rescheduling it after the holidays doesnt seem like a lot to ask for considering what my ex has asked for in the past.
I am already kicking my self in the ass for returning her to her Mom when we originally seperated and I had my daughter for 5 months,kicking myself in the ass for returning her the 2nd time because a judge said CPS didnt follow protocal.CPS followed it a few short months later when they took my daughter with a ex parte order and she spent 5 months in 4 different foster homes.
They all go to church together and are paying my ex wifes legal fees.Her Lawyer told the Judge this.A different Judge one not familer with this case ordered the evals.My cost is 750 for mine 750 for my new wife and 450 for my child.
My new wife has 2 children that i support fully their father is not in their lives.I dont have credit cards a bank account or any way to get a loan.This custody battle has been going on for 3 yrs.I had a eval before and it only stated that my daughter needed to be returned to me ASAP.
My ex wife's eval was a whole different story.The eval Stated she needed extensive therapy anger management different meds ect ect.It also stated that in the evals opinion that the child should never be alone with her.
My daughter is in counsling and even on meds.They say she is borderlined post tramatic stress and she suffers from anxiety related to the visits with her mom.They stated that overnights needed to be stopped but the GAL didnt agree.
The GAL has been to my ex wifes home has even dropped in on her visits with notice to my ex before a visit.He refuses to come to our home or even sit in on a counsling session.He will not meet with her teachers or doctor.
The last evals we all summited to are a little over a yr old.My ex does not pay support .i do recieve a very small SSI check of 135 a month.My ex is dissabled and doesnt draw much for herself.
I am paying for daughters medical expenses with a payment plan.I had to get a different vehicle because of the extensive trips out of town for court and visits.I am ordered to provide transportation for 1 visits.The court and juristiction for my case is 4 hrs away in the same state. The GAL is 5 hrs away.
My expenses sometimes far exceed my income.I told my lawyer i could not afford in the alloted time frame of 6 weeks to come up with the type of money I need for the evals.I could have it if I stop paying rent let them repo the vehicle which is almost paid for remove my BD from counsling ect ect.
I have sold every non essential need from our home from earlier hearings to pay legal bills.All I need is more time but my lawyer is refusing to ask for it.He says we need to remain the good guys in this.I have done everything and everything he states to me
I have given my ex more time during a visit extra visits even offering to bring my ex here for school thingsI get repaid with a cussing out over the phone.I have done both visits in a month bent over backwards to rearrange work and schedules to accomidate my ex .I even bought BD a whole wardrobe to have at her Moms because BM refused to let her wear the clothes i sent.
Its not that we dont want to do the evals I just need more time to be able to afford them and post phoneing 1 hearing and rescheduling it after the holidays doesnt seem like a lot to ask for considering what my ex has asked for in the past.
I am already kicking my self in the ass for returning her to her Mom when we originally seperated and I had my daughter for 5 months,kicking myself in the ass for returning her the 2nd time because a judge said CPS didnt follow protocal.CPS followed it a few short months later when they took my daughter with a ex parte order and she spent 5 months in 4 different foster homes.