My DH is thoroughly annoyed with BM. So am I but I'm used to dealing with her idiosyncrasies. BM failed to pick up SD1 from her after school program twice in two Weeks. SD1 is released at 4:30 twice a week. C/O from only 4months ago states DH picks up both kids from school during his parenting time because of BM choosing pickup and drop off times to tell DH what he's doing wrong as a parent. High conflict parenting, but can be modified upon mutual written consent of both parties.
DH and BM modified agreement in person and have several text messages back and fourth regarding the modified pickup arrangement. DH picks up SD2 from school on Fridays at 2 and BM gets SD1 from AS program at 4:30.
last week BM calls DH at 4:28 and says she's not gonna be able to pick SD1 up can he do it. It takes 45 minutes to an hour to get to the kids school as she moved out of the school district so my DH calls me and asks me to get her. I leave work and take a cab. I get there at 4:58. Principal says it can't happen again. Mind you the reason SD1 is inn this program is because BM signed her up because she is inn danger of failing 3Rd grade. Homework isn't getting turned in on moms days, its incomplete or wrong. Promotion in doubt papers have already been sent home. BM reached out to me (the person she despises the most at times it seems) and asked for my assistance. I started a communication log for school, weekly progress reports etc. grades improved. Mom deviated from this in January...now promotion in doubt still stands.
Yesterday, DH gets a call from school saying BM hasn't picked up SD1. Again. I take a cab and get there at 5:27. after school director is there addressing me like I'm BM "she's out of the program, this is the last time." DH asks me to call mom she's doesn't call me back until 739. Glad to know she was worried about her kid since no one called us to let us know she wouldn't be able to pick SD1 up. I walked by the grand mothers house since she lives 3 blocks way from us and BM is parked outside.
This doesn't beat out July 2010 when she failed to pick SD1 from school for 4 hours and them when she realized it was I who had her... Filled a dv report with police that I kidnapped her child to cover her own rear end.
BM has also removed fathers name from school documents when she is the primary custodial parent and they both share legal custody. The split went from DH having the EOW an after BM made unfounded allegations through ACS and other agencies... DH was granted 43 vs 57 percent arrangement.
Does he file contempt, or emergency ex parte temporary custody or an order to show cause? He wants full custody of kids but is worried about filing the wrong paperwork like he did last time. If this is just contempt then he won't file for emergency custody. We just want 8yo SD1 to progress to next grade. Also can't forget to mention now DH has C/O in place kids have only missed one day of school compared to when dad only saw dds EOW and they missed 19 days and 14 days from school with no illnesses and 9 And 13 tardies the previous years
DH and BM modified agreement in person and have several text messages back and fourth regarding the modified pickup arrangement. DH picks up SD2 from school on Fridays at 2 and BM gets SD1 from AS program at 4:30.
last week BM calls DH at 4:28 and says she's not gonna be able to pick SD1 up can he do it. It takes 45 minutes to an hour to get to the kids school as she moved out of the school district so my DH calls me and asks me to get her. I leave work and take a cab. I get there at 4:58. Principal says it can't happen again. Mind you the reason SD1 is inn this program is because BM signed her up because she is inn danger of failing 3Rd grade. Homework isn't getting turned in on moms days, its incomplete or wrong. Promotion in doubt papers have already been sent home. BM reached out to me (the person she despises the most at times it seems) and asked for my assistance. I started a communication log for school, weekly progress reports etc. grades improved. Mom deviated from this in January...now promotion in doubt still stands.
Yesterday, DH gets a call from school saying BM hasn't picked up SD1. Again. I take a cab and get there at 5:27. after school director is there addressing me like I'm BM "she's out of the program, this is the last time." DH asks me to call mom she's doesn't call me back until 739. Glad to know she was worried about her kid since no one called us to let us know she wouldn't be able to pick SD1 up. I walked by the grand mothers house since she lives 3 blocks way from us and BM is parked outside.
This doesn't beat out July 2010 when she failed to pick SD1 from school for 4 hours and them when she realized it was I who had her... Filled a dv report with police that I kidnapped her child to cover her own rear end.
BM has also removed fathers name from school documents when she is the primary custodial parent and they both share legal custody. The split went from DH having the EOW an after BM made unfounded allegations through ACS and other agencies... DH was granted 43 vs 57 percent arrangement.
Does he file contempt, or emergency ex parte temporary custody or an order to show cause? He wants full custody of kids but is worried about filing the wrong paperwork like he did last time. If this is just contempt then he won't file for emergency custody. We just want 8yo SD1 to progress to next grade. Also can't forget to mention now DH has C/O in place kids have only missed one day of school compared to when dad only saw dds EOW and they missed 19 days and 14 days from school with no illnesses and 9 And 13 tardies the previous years