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My husband and I have dealt with a bias counseler.The counseler was a step-father in his current marriage,and the kids called him dad.My husband found out a year or so into his daughters life that he was her father.Her mother married a man soon after,that was very abusive.We inform the counseler soon as we seen the proof.But do to us living out of state and the mother being the care taker to that point.He thought we were just causeing trouble.That my husband was just being selfish.We offered to show proof,but it was never allowed.She threw a fit in court and everything,and the counseler still took her side.The courts are proven to be  for the mother in most case's of custody and visitation.In our case the mother was beaten to the point the EMS was called along with the cops,about two years later.She was put in the hospital a few days.The children seen it all.She finaly left him and is now married to someone else.They still think the child is better off with the mother.I wish you better luck.

Bolivar,thanks for info.I tryed the web site to and it came back several times there was no such page.Looking into your other idea's thanks...

:-) Thanks for the info you all.The weekends we have his daughter are centered around her(b-mother)schedule,if she has plans or not.And if those plans include the daughter or not.If they dont included her she ready to hand her over,if they do she informs my husband to have her back at her wim.They live close thats not the prolblem,its we make plans for us to do things with her and she(b-mother) calls and tells him i need her back at so and so time.No if's ands or but's.And getting info from her about their daughter school grades etc. can be very trying.My husband isnt trying to take their daughter away,he just wants a set schedule for visitations that cant be broke at a wim and the chance to know whats going on with their daughter in school etc.What realy hurt my husband we went to his daughter school and they didnt know who he was.She had been telling people her now husband was their daughters Dad and had the daughter calling him dad in front of teachers.Please send info you all have legal or opinion.We are gratefull for it all. Thanks...

:-) Can anybody out there give me legal info for a  father in ohio that is seeking to expand his rights and visitations.A bit of history.Father and mother were never married or even lived together.Neither knew if the child belong to him or someone else untill she was a year old.We married when she was around two,and moved out of state.She got legal and pyhsical custody my husband got one weekend a month and limeted holiday viset's,along with one week in the summer wich we returned to their state for.She also let her come to our home for a four week period,two summer's.We have sense moved back to the state they live in.We started getting their daughter every weekend then last school year she sent her to stay with us during the week and her during weekends.Now its summer and it's back to weekends.My questions are can my husband go back to court and get his weekends set in a order and even expand the viset's.Also he was hoping to some how get it in an order that she gives him more info of whats going on with their daughter in school etc.My husband pays support even when she was staying with us.Any info you can pass on we would be gratefull. Thanks...