I need help my husband works on Fridays and I drive a hour and a half to go pick up my stepdaughter from school. My husband and his ex don't get along so his ex gives me a hard time to get to him. I want to know if she can stop me from picking her up for his weekend? Do I need my husband to give me something in writing to do so? And if she still denies me what do I do?(call the police) I don't want to upset my stepdaughter by doing that but what can I do to prevent that from happening? Please help any suggestions are very helpful. Has any other stepmom gone through this?