thanks No they were never married. They said they did a DNA test and he's the father. I question it because the mother wouldn't show it to me when I visited. My son's name is on the birth certificate (big mistake) so I know he's obligated to pay support either way. He's filed for visitation and when mom got the papers she called to scream and call him "such wonderful words of endearment" I believe they have a court date pending. Both parents live in TN.