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 would the judge look down on us for turning her in or would he pat us on the back for being aware of the law? Would it look vindictive? are we looking at being audited becuase of it, because even if we didn't put our name on the form she'll probably know it was us who turned her in and I know from past experience that she will be vindictive.

I'm really torn about doing this. I want to becuase it's right, she should be punished if she's breaking the law. But it's the IRS!

I was just wondering who we should inform of the fraud when BM claims that SSx2 lived with her most of last year....

I've looked at the laws, it clearly says that they have to live with you for more than 6 months before you can claim them on your taxes, otherwise the person who had them for that time claims them.

SS(6) and SS(9) lived with BM's parents from March to December... but who's gonna get that fat earned income credit in April???

It feels sorta tacky to ask, but that's the whole reason we're filing for custody of them, that she didn't have them. And we'd like to prove our point!

I looked at Walgreens.com, the only thing i could find re: vitamins w/floride is a prescription....

Ingredient Name: PEDIATRIC MULTIPLE VITAMINS with FLUORIDE

Drug Manufacturer: RUGBY

Common Uses: This medicine is a nutritional supplement used to add vitamins and fluoride to your diet.

Hey all. Just wanted to share what's going on around here. Some background:

Me & X divorced 2001, she got custody of our to boys, then 3 & 6, now 6 & almost 10. Since then, she's moved them 5 times. My oldest has changed schools 7 times.

Currently they are living with X's parents. She lives over 2 hours from them, I live 1 hour, the boys are in the middle.

I've been talking to a lawyer in the town where the divorce was (the boys still live in that county) and we set up a meeting for next Wed. to talk about the case! I'm going to fight for full custody, and the lawyer said he feels good about it, since she's basically abandoned them to her mother.

Now, I want to do as much as I can to make sure that I can get custody, is there any advice you can give me as to what else I should be doing? What really got all this started is last month she asked me if I wanted to take them, since she was getting pressured by her parents to move them in with her. She admitted that she couldn't afford for her to have them with her, and also that her schedule doesn't allow it. (she works in theatre construction, doing stages for plays and often has to work really late at night.)

Anyway, thanks in advance for all your help! I can't wait to let you know more about what happens.