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>I reread the facts you posted eariler this month, and it is
>inconceivable to me that an attorney would take this case on
>your soon to be ex-wife's behalf, unless there are other facts
>of which I'm not aware.
>
>You REALLY need a local attorney to face this down TODAY.
>There are a number of very thorny constitutional issues that
>are raised but no pro se litigant who isn't at least a law
>student will get a judge to pay attention to them.
>
>Don't screw around with this any longer. If I try to help you
>from a distance it's just gonna prolong the inevitable,
>because opposing counsel has crafted this complaint in a
>manner that if she wins because of your apathy, you will get
>CREAMED (financially and emotionally).
>
>A reasonably good family lawyer should be able to dispose of
>this case in one hearing, and may even be able to have your
>wife end up paying the bill for filing a frivolous action.
>
>What I can't figure out is your previous statement that the
>judge threw this out once already. If that's really true, then
>this action should be barred by res judicata doctrine, so I'm
>thinking that I'm not in possession of all the relevant
>details.
>
>I don't often walk away from an opportunity to help, but it
>would be a big mistake for me to try to help you stop this
>suit in its tracks from a distance, because I don't think a
>judge is gonna listen to you, pro se, without a good attorney
>representing your interests.
>
>SO GO FIND ONE RIGHT NOW!!!


I cannot afford another attorney right now, I've already paid the other attorney over 5,000 and come to find out he never filed the things he was supposed to. If I could just know what to write in this answer file so I can go file it myself I only have until 10 AM tomorrow morning to file it or I lose by default.   There are no other hidden facts with the case, she keeps filing frivoulous lawsuits after another and won't stop.  I posted my situation on legalmatch so hopefully I hear from someone today but I desperately need help on this answer file. Anybody please! One more thing I also found out by calling the courthouse that she had the divorce and the adoption case consolidated and it is now to be heard in the 256trh distrcit instead of 302nd, which I never received notification of the consolidation.

Should I post it here or email it pdf? It is 5 pages total

I have until Monday to file an answer file in Dallas County, Dallas Texas courts for the adoption petition started by my separated spouse.

1. How do I file this "answer file"

2. What do I write in it as I do not agree to her adopting my daughter.


Thanks!

OK.  I had written you previously.  I came to realize the whole reason the divorce is not final yet is because she filed to adopt my daughter, she needs to still be married to me to do so.  

1. How do I get this divorce finalized?  It has been filed since June 24,2005.

2. Could I file a restraining order against her due to the fact I am terrified of her kidnapping my daughter since she is so obsessed with taking her away?

3. I got a notarized paper stating I do not want current or future support from my daughter's biological mother, in turn hoping this will strike out her non support claim to terminate the birth mother's pareantal rights, is this considered a legal document to a Judge?


Thanks,
   Showkilr
Dallas, TX

Thank you for your help, I will keep you posted.

A. No she was just a stepmother, she is not her biological mother. She has no visitation rights.
C. I have sole custody of my daughter since she is 7 months old
D. her biological mother does pay support however she lives in another state and has not seen her since she is 2 but always sends cards on birthdays holidays,etc.
E. She is 8 years old
f. My daughter wants to be with me

The 1st Judge was not on her committee and threw my ex's petition out and told her she has no grounds even for visitation because she is not her biological parent.

Yes but for some ungodly reason I have to pay "temporary" spousal support payments of 500 a month until she finds a job.....go figure!

Thank you so much for your help.

I was married to my current wife for 5 years, I filed for divorce in June of this year. I had a daughter when I went into this marriage, she is not the biological mother. She has filed a petition to terminate my daughter's biological mother and to adopt my daughter on her own and then take her away from me.   She is trying to terminate my daughter's biological mother based on the fact she does not pay support(untrue), and that she left my daughter(also not true).

1. What are her chances of this, why was she even allowed to file this?
2. My other concern is her attorney works on the committe with all the Judges, isn't this a conflict issue?
3. I live in dallas, Tx, Dallas county. Please help me.