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Yes I plan on letting them know exactly what is going on.

I can't dispute that something did happen but I think mom is blowing it out of proportion for her own personal gain.

 I think if we could've sat down and looked at what happened we could have concluded what happened was an accident and not a assult. Now if the 6 year old boy would have been a teenager or something of that nature it would have been a different story all toghter.

I will tell them that I want to be there when they are questioning any of the kids, even if I can no be seen I want to know how they are asking the questions and everthing. I don't want them putting answers in their mouths.

When I picked up my daughter yesterday everthing was fine. I took her to the park and asked her questions about it. i recorded the video on my phone. I just wanted to see how she would answer the questions. i think we concluded that it was an accident.  i also took video when I got home of them two playing togther as if nothing ever happened. So I don't believe my child is in any way traumatized or anything of that nature. I would also submit this evidence to the CPA.

Maybe I am going overboard, i dunno but I am used to dealing with this scandalous woman.

Ok here is the situation. I am very nervous about what could happen.

My sister and her boys ages 8 and 6 moved in with me about a month ago. I felt this would help my custody situation due to the fact that I would have someone to help get my daughter off to school while I was at work on 1st shift.

I have not yet filed papers to get back into court regarding getting overnight parenting time throughout the week. I have the child on almost a daily basis. Just not the overnights except every other weekend.

Now everthing has been going fine until last night. My daughter 5 and the youngest 6 were upstairs watching a movie and ACCORDING TO HER MOTHER when I dropped her off my daughter informed her mom that the youngest boy touched her pp. They were not naked. They were FULLY CLOTHED.

Now she did not tell me what had happend.

After I got the call from her mom and she told me she was calling CPS we asked the young boy about it and he said he was playing or whatnot whippin his arms around and I guess touched her on accident. I guess she asked him why he did it and he said it was an accident and he was sorry.

I am freaking out about this... Has anyone went through anyting similar? What can I expect from these CPS people?

I imagine that my shot of overnight parenting time is down the toilet.


HELP PLEASE.

any links or sources of info would be greatly apptreciated.

Well as I stated before, I have her on nearly a daily basis. I don't feel like going back and forth daily for 4 or 5 hrs at a time is consistant either. She goes home and within a half hour she is in bed. I feel like all I am is dinner and transportation.

Our daughter can ride the bus to my house but the mother does not want that because she likes  to  make me come get her even though I am there many times before the bus. Anything to cause me more headache and cost.

I also recall when we were first in court then the judge said something against going week to week... He said you want to go a whole week without seeing your child?  That's what lead to my having her daily... ( I was also on 3rd shift at the time)

Also Mom should be working come december which I'm guessing she will have a first shift schedule as well.

we were sent to the foc for review and the parenting time specialist (who dislikes me) because I am an involved father and demand that mom takes some responsibility said my change to 1st shift was not  a valid change in circumstance even though my time with child was cut. She did recommend week on week off in the summer. I feel it would be best year round.

Ok guys you may remember me.

I got time with my child on nearly a daily basis. I have quoted in my order that I have Secondary physical custody.

Now the mother has fought me tooth and nail regarding overnight parenting time throughout the week. We finalised the order before our daughter was school age and now she is in kintergarden. I was also working 3rd shift at the time and have since moved back to 1st shift to be avaible for overnight parenting time with child. She is accustomed to going back and forth daily to see dad and back to see mom at night.

I want to have our daughter on a 2 week 4 day on 3 day off schedule instead of the daily back and forth. Now the only issue is school and my early morning work schedule. I am out the house at roughly 4am every morning.  Since mom is unemployed for (4 yrs) is is more convient for her to stay with mom instead of me getting a sitter.

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Now i have had my sister recently move in with me with her own school age children who will be going to the same school as my daughter and would be riding the bus with her as well. My sister would be getting all the kids off to school at the same time. To me it makes sense and would work.

Mother would odviousy oppose any arrangement I come up with because she does not want to lose her childsupport.

Anybody ever dealt with anything like this? I have a live in sitter and kids and everbody gets along great...

As some of you might remember my issue with my attorney basically dissapearing on me well here we go again....

So as far as my attorney issue I recieved a call from her the other day.
This is probally 3 or 4 weeks or more since I last left a letter at her office asking for a reply within 10 business days. I also asked for a refund of my pre-paid retainer as well as a itemized bill for all services on my behalf.

Well in short she told me that she lost the key to her mailbox outside her office (which I think is a lie) because the first small letter I left was not in there when I left the second one... It was a small mailbox that you could look into the slot. There was nothing in there. I know she was pregnant also and she mentioned she just got off maternity leave but it just sounds like a sorry excuse to me. She made no mention of the numerous answering machine messages I left her. I truly believe that she knew I was trying to get ahold of her.

she wanted to get back togther again to go over the case to get famililar with it again. She also mentioned calling her lawyer to get some info but I told her to hold off on all that. All I am thinking is she wants to get the rest of the retainer fee as quickly as possible. I dunno what to do about the situation.

Can you come up with a fake name to write under?

Kinda makes ya wonder how many attorney's were gonna come across in heaven...

Yea I understand that I can file a motion but by the time I have my day in court I will most likely be back to work... So will it be pointless?

The way the auto indrustry is going now especially in MI who knows how long I will be betweeen working full time and and unemployment checks

This might be a stupid question because I don't think you can change childsupport without going to court first... But here is my issue.

I got my daughter on nearly a daily basis. I have been laid off for basically a month. 2 weeks off and 1/2 week on and 2 weeks off again.. Of course they took the full amount of CS out of my unemployment check which is alot less then I bring home weekly. my question is is their anyway I could possibly work out a temporary fix for my childsupport and unemployment situation because I am not getting enough from that to survive.

I am paid to date on CS and do not want to get behind on that or my bills.

By the time I got to court I would most likely be back to work fulltime and be out a motion fee for even trying to get into court. So that would be pointless.
I am in the auto indrustry so the future is kinda uncertain at this point.
 
The only other option I got is to try and get my daugher for a entire week which abates my CS by 50%.

 Any ideas?

http://www.hillaryclinton.com/issues/family/

This is a link to her site in the family. Send an email and let them know that us fathers need someone to stand up for us.


Among the issues she has fought for and will make a priority as president are:

Attracting and supporting more outstanding teachers and principals, and paying them like the professionals they are.

Reforming the No Child Left Behind Act. This law represented a promise -- more resources for schools in exchange for more accountability -- and that promise has not been kept.

Giving new parents support and training to promote healthy development for their children.

Increasing access to high-quality early education and helping to create Early Head Start.

Passing legislation to provide respite care for caregivers of elderly and disabled Americans.

Helping to pass the Family and Medical Leave Act to enable new parents to take time off without losing their jobs, and expanding it to make it available to more parents and to provide for longer leave.

Advocating for adoption and for abused and neglected children -- as First Lady, Hillary pushed legislation that more than doubled adoptions out of foster care.

Promoting programs, like Home Instruction for Parents of Preschool Youngsters, that provide new parents with support and guidance in caring for their children. As First Lady of Arkansas, she helped bring HIPPY to the U.S.

Protecting children against violence and sexual content in the media and studying the impact of electronic media on children's cognitive, social, and physical development.

Providing meaningful support to households, called "kinship care" families, where grandparents and other relatives are raising children.