Dear Socrateaser,
We live in Ohio.
I am the CP of my 3 children ages 10, 7 and 5. NCP has EOW visitation plus a midweek visit that he does not practice (the midweek he does not practice, he gets the kids EOW). CO states that the NCP be responsible for all transportation for visits.
My current husband and I moved about a year and a half ago. We are now about 55 miles away from the NCP. I have willingly provied half of the transportation for NCP's visits since we have moved (I meet him half way). NCP is becoming very difficult to deal with. He is often late for pick-up/drop-off.
Last drop off, he was 1/2 hour late with no phone call or notice. This is becomming the norm and is very unnerving. I have notified him that I will no longer be providing half of the transportation if he cannot be on time. He is threatening to take it to court.
Another issue is the place of the visitations. NCP lives with his mother in a one bedroom house. We have three children together plus he has another child with another woman. He also has his g/f living with him and she has three children as well. That makes 7 kids and 3 adults crammed into a small one bedroom house.
My kids have complained quite a bit about the sleeping situation at the NCPs. They say they have to cram onto the couch or the recliners to sleep. There is simply not enough space in this house to accomodate all of those people.
My questions for you are this:
1. If NCP brings the courts into this, will the judge order me to provide transportation for NCP's visits? This is not really a problem if NCP can be on time.
2. Will the living arrangements of the NCP be looked into? I have asked NCP if his g/f could possibly take her children on a different weekend so they are not so crowded but NCP tells me it is none of my business what goes on there.
Thank you in advance Soc!
We live in Ohio.
I am the CP of my 3 children ages 10, 7 and 5. NCP has EOW visitation plus a midweek visit that he does not practice (the midweek he does not practice, he gets the kids EOW). CO states that the NCP be responsible for all transportation for visits.
My current husband and I moved about a year and a half ago. We are now about 55 miles away from the NCP. I have willingly provied half of the transportation for NCP's visits since we have moved (I meet him half way). NCP is becoming very difficult to deal with. He is often late for pick-up/drop-off.
Last drop off, he was 1/2 hour late with no phone call or notice. This is becomming the norm and is very unnerving. I have notified him that I will no longer be providing half of the transportation if he cannot be on time. He is threatening to take it to court.
Another issue is the place of the visitations. NCP lives with his mother in a one bedroom house. We have three children together plus he has another child with another woman. He also has his g/f living with him and she has three children as well. That makes 7 kids and 3 adults crammed into a small one bedroom house.
My kids have complained quite a bit about the sleeping situation at the NCPs. They say they have to cram onto the couch or the recliners to sleep. There is simply not enough space in this house to accomodate all of those people.
My questions for you are this:
1. If NCP brings the courts into this, will the judge order me to provide transportation for NCP's visits? This is not really a problem if NCP can be on time.
2. Will the living arrangements of the NCP be looked into? I have asked NCP if his g/f could possibly take her children on a different weekend so they are not so crowded but NCP tells me it is none of my business what goes on there.
Thank you in advance Soc!