Quote from: gemini3 on Sep 27, 2009, 11:33:00 AM
Those are some strong words from someone who isn't involved in the situation. What-if's don't amount to a hill of beans. We could all make up hypothetical situations.
There's nothing in any of the posts that give any indication that he's a bad father, or that the child needs protection from him. In fact - he shows up every other week for his visitation. If I had to put my money on something I would say that there are issues between the mother and father, not between the child and the father.
But part of being a good parent is FINANCIALLY supporting your child. And not putting them at risk of seeing you arrested while they are with you.
Saying that there are issues between the mother and father is an understatement. He isn't paying his child support. He isn't going to court to modify the child support. He isn't letting the CP know his address so that she will know where the child is (btw, this is something that a court can order the ncp to provide to the cp. And has in other cases). The ncp isn't letting the courts know his address.
The mother needs to make sure that the child isn't with the NCP when he is arrested. And the only way she can do that is to make arrangements for the child to be elsewhere when the NCP, who has an arrest warrent out on him for contempt because of his actions, comes to pick the child up. And let the cops know where he will be.