Let me start off by saying that the only posts I read here were by Gemini so I don't know what anyone else said.
The court order is the binding document period. If it doesn't say a due date, then there is none. You are paying monthly on a regular basis and you have your proof so there is no issue for contempt.
Continue on with the cover your ass provisions and let her cry as much as she wants.
Sounds to me like she is counting on YOUR money to pay HER bill that is due on the first and because YOU aren't paying HER it's late. Too bad for her that she can't handle her finances better. NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
I don't understand why she would have closed the DCSE case and started having you pay her directly except that she was equally unhappy with the payment receipt schedule in place with them.
I also don't see any reason why you should assume the burden and cost of re-opening a DCSE case when she is the one with the issue. As I said, if the court order does not give any direction, then there is none.
Sounds like your ex is a joy to deal with.
The court order is the binding document period. If it doesn't say a due date, then there is none. You are paying monthly on a regular basis and you have your proof so there is no issue for contempt.
Continue on with the cover your ass provisions and let her cry as much as she wants.
Sounds to me like she is counting on YOUR money to pay HER bill that is due on the first and because YOU aren't paying HER it's late. Too bad for her that she can't handle her finances better. NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
I don't understand why she would have closed the DCSE case and started having you pay her directly except that she was equally unhappy with the payment receipt schedule in place with them.
I also don't see any reason why you should assume the burden and cost of re-opening a DCSE case when she is the one with the issue. As I said, if the court order does not give any direction, then there is none.
Sounds like your ex is a joy to deal with.