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ok guys I need some input, dh has a daughter whos mother up and took her to FL from CA 6 years ago, without dh knowing or permission, after we found mother,, she was very apologetic, allowed us summer visitation here in CA with daughter (then 7years old) this went on every summer and we also had every other Christmas break, until summer of 04 when child told dad about how stepdad treats her, dh spoke with mom about his concerns, mom said:: if daughter doesnt like how shes treated then she needs to talk to him about it its not my problem, and since dh said something she wasnt going to allow her to come to CA anymore.. dh of course said wrong answer.. and told her he was not sending her home till we  had a court order in place, Well bm went to Fl court got emergency order to return child, which we did, and we retained FL atty, we have been fighting back and forth through atty's since 04, coming to stipulated agreements and such (however mom keeps backing out of them) .. so today.. we received email from our FL atty saying FL court feels this case would be better heard in CA.. I am soooo confused.. any thoughts?  

ok.. so my dh husband and I have 3 children, he also has 2 other children from 2 other relationships,, we had his son for Thanksgiving break who is 12, well his mother is an idiot and misunderstood what the court order says and called the police on my dh on friday, saying we refused to return child, police man (nice guy) read over the papers and told mom she is mis understanding them  and tells dh he is completely right in his assessment of the situation. ..

 so we think ok.. shes an idiot.. glad thats over.. then sunday comes and she shows up at our home on Sunday evening with her father, she calls from cell phone and demands child back because in papers it says thanksgiving goes from when school gets out to sunday evening at 830, then goes back to regular schedule. Well this particular weekend would be ours on regular schedule.. so child gets returned to school next day,   Well being an idiot again she leaves and goes to the police station.. and tells them same thing father is refusing to return child. .. Only this time police didnt even bother to call us, they just read the papers told her she is misunderstanding them..(CAUSE SHES AN IDIOT) and sends her home.
 She then calls dh and says well its late and Im calling my attorney in the morning and were going to change these papers.. AND IM THINKING.. HELLOOO IDIOT.. IN ORDER TO DO THAT YOU WOULD HAVE TO FILE TO MODIFY CHILD CUSTODY/VISITATION AND .... YOU CANT POSSIBLY DO THAT.. CAUSE WE WILL ASK FOR MORE THAN WE HAVE... OH MY GOD.. CAN THIS LADY REALLY BE THIS DUMB.. AND THAT IS AN ASTOUNDING YES.. .. SO WE SHALL SEE IF HER ATTORNEY CONTACTS OUR ATTORNEY.. UGH.. THANKS FOR LISTENING..

JUST WHEN YOU THINK.. OHH HAPPY HOLIDAYS.. LOL